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Hetero Female Submissive, 57,  Erie, Pennsylvania
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I have 15 years of experience. I prefer a relationship with open communication and trust well before the whips and chains come out of the bag/closet. Looking for something meaningful, amid the vanilla drear and irritation. The depth I am looking for in a lifestyle relationship is very difficult to find. I have often thought I am going about looking for it in all the wrongs ways. I have enough experience to know there is a wonderful pay off if I can find a Dom that suits me.










Last Online:


 Submissive Female



 5' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Lives For:




 Body Worship



 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows


 Bird Watching

 Fine Dining


 Going to the Opera



 Musical Theater





 Horseback Riding



 Anal Play



 Breast Play



 Corner Time



 Local BDSM Community


 Foot Worship



 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play


 Obedience Training

 Serving as a Maid

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing



 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows


 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing












 Canes and Crops



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service

 Hair Pulling


 Housework Service


 Masks (Wearing)

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions



 Wax play



 Curious About:

 Art Galleries

 Renaissance Faires

 Martial Arts



 Wind Surfing


 Electrical Play

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Denial


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Alternative Medicine


 Coffee Shops





 Scuba Diving

 Surf Boarding

 Ultimate Frisbee



 Massage (Getting)


 Outdoor Bondage

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap

 Theatrical Scenes



 TV News


 Bar Hopping


 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales



 Genital Punishment

 Gas Masks

 Masks (On Partner)


 Rubber Fetish




 Horror Movies

 Online Chatrooms

 TV Sports

 Hard Limits:

 Fire Play


 Knife Play

 Needle Play

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Journal Entries:
9/12/2015 5:15:19 PM
Call me old fashioned.... I am not interested in interacting with Married Men!  Please respect this limit.

6/23/2015 7:07:31 PM
Nothing about this lifestyle is abuse.  I understand there is now a common use of the word that relates to use in a traditional BDSM sense. Yet abuse is not something a willing participant would engage in... it denotes non consensual use at best.   Just my own personal feelings on the subject.

8/31/2014 5:53:17 PM
If a woman is not submissive to a man it is not because she lacks the ability to submit; rather he lacks the ability to create for her a place in her heart and mind to fall to her knees.

5/7/2014 5:26:56 AM

 "If you think the pain of making a necessary change is too much for you to endure, wait until you one day experience the pain of having not changed, and when there’s not enough time in your life left to take back control of where you are, how you are and what you are. "

-Kai Greene

4/5/2014 9:32:12 AM

"She wants to be taken to the edge with someone man enough to push her over, only to find herself caught in the ropes of her own submission. There tangled and hung, at the mercy of the only one that truly understands her."   used with permission from the profile of Torcherr on this site.

9/6/2012 10:08:10 AM

The key to expanded awareness is surrender.  ** William James**

8/13/2012 6:55:48 AM

I do not participate in "mercy" gagging!!  If You find this statement hysterical, i already like You, winks.

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