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Hetero Male Dominant, 66,  Essex, United Kingdom
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Hello, Coming back into the lifestyle. Seeking a submissive female who is open minded in the lifestyle and open about life. Looking to explore both to the fullest. I like to push myself and to test my property. Am intelligent, have my own company. Like good restaurants, travelling, cinema, theatre, most sports, walking and more. I am totally open about my dominance and open minded about the lifestyle in every aspect. Am not for the faint hearted. Am a strict controller, disciplinarian, sadist and into taboo and the darker areas of life, ones society considers abnormal. Saying that I do not rush in. I take my time to discuss what interests and needs any prospective submissve has and specific areas they want to explore. Still reading. Put finger to key and contact me. If you interest me I will reply. If you can not exchange phone numbers within a week or meet for coffee after 4 weeks of making contact then please do not contact me. SJS If you contact me about my unit. Be respectful. You are not my Dominant, as I am never under anyone's control!!!!










Last Online:


 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Scuba Diving (Expert)

 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops

 Electrical Play


 Hair Pulling



 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Sensory Deprivation


 Vacuum Stimulation



 Snorkeling (Expert)

 Walking (Expert)

 Anal Play




 Masks (Wearing)

 Needle Play


 Orgasm Denial

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play




 Art Galleries

 Hiking (Expert)



 Outdoor Bondage

 Speech Restrictions

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Journal Entries:
12/20/2021 12:22:16 AM

Have recently retired. No unit, no box. Relocated to west London.


12/23/2017 11:11:49 PM
In Italy over Christmas... Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to all 😀

6/21/2017 7:07:22 AM
Noticing a new trend with new profiles ... people asking for or expecting travelling expenses .... now is that an up front payment or a payment once they have arrived? ... is the expense also to cover the return journey? Can I expect a repayment if I imprison them in my box? lol (humour, my humour) 😀

6/4/2017 1:05:41 AM
The number of gimp, rubber etc. profiles on here. Rubber suits are not onesies, are body size related, are expensive ... so many need to wise up and be realIstic in their expectations. My opinion. 

5/24/2017 1:05:19 AM
What has happened to open discussion, messages, conversation and Q&A to discover a connection or mutual interests and needs?

5/20/2017 8:36:47 PM
There seems to be growing trend. A submissive tells anyone replying to write back with an explanation of what the dominat will do to them. This is a specific instruction from a submissive and in technical terms 'topping from the bottom'. I always reply asking who is the dominant? Not surprisingly most are 'deleted unread'. Why would any genuine Dominant comply to this instruction? 

5/6/2017 10:25:16 PM
Am no longer amazed by the people on this site. The people who want to be slaves, want a sadist, want to be imprisoned, want to be boxed, have no limits etc. Then I message them and do not get a reply or it remains unopened. If you get into messaging or go to yahoo or kik, after a day of talking they go missing. One or two who I feel have been genuine and discussed what I offer and what their needs are, have declined and I wish them well because I understand. The ones who are still here or have been here for years, will never progress beyond fantasy. This is my opinion and not open to debate. Anyone messaging me about this entry will be blocked. SJS

5/2/2017 1:19:46 AM
Jillinabox4sadist is not looking to be boxed .. just insult ... takes all sorts lol 

5/1/2017 2:45:57 AM
Why do submissive females call a potential Owner 'hun' or 'hon'? Simple respect and protocol should dictact any response. Am talking with one who wants to submit but 'she' fails repeatedly... then wonders why it goes no where ... keep it going until I bore of 'her'. 

4/23/2017 4:17:38 AM
People just randomly add them selves as an admirer.... wtf? ... come and chat 

4/23/2017 2:07:50 AM
So many put in their profile... ' seekin extreme' or 'drawn to the dark side' or 'want taboo' but do you really want reality as opposed to fantasy? 

4/21/2017 12:35:31 PM
For fuck's sake. Be real. Do not say 'Yes' to what I want, if your not genuine. You will be found out. The only 'Loser' is you because I just move on. I have to talk to people to find out if they are genuine and real, it does not waste my time at all. 

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