Disclaimer...borrowed but tweaked this profile to make it my own. Attractive , slender, naturally dominant 38 y.o. woman seeks a genuine submissive. I'm a vivacious, fun person to be with - well educated, cultured, elegant. Love trying new things, travel, enjoying life. I am looking for a true, naturally submissive gentleman has a powerful craving to serve a dominant woman 24/7 in a female-led relationship. I seek a highly intelligent heterosexual male, 32+ financially secure, worldly, traveled, with well developed social aptitude - someone I can proudly be with in polite society. Someone who is ready to start a family. This is no fetish or game. It's deep submission. Reluctance will not be tolerated. . If you desire this lifestyle and possess these qualities, you may contact me with a complete and thorough resume containing background information and a brief essay as to your talents, vital statistics and submissive potential. No BS. No Dominants or switches. I have strong but severe love to offer. I am not ashamed of who I am. I am real and 100% serious. Clearly I am asking for the moon and stars- but I deserve it. I am stylish, attractive wicked-smart, charismatic. You should be local or willing to relocate in near future. Willingness to serve a requirement. Make no mistake, I have my pick of men in "vanilla" world but I want more, much more. Something rare and special. You should have financial security and freedom to fulfill the role I require. Must be D&D free. No smoking. Physically Fit. Energetic. Smart. Witty. Amusing. I will not respond to any new messages unless I know you have read my profile. At the top of your response write....Yes Maam.
5/4/2013 2:37:49 PM
The search continues. Didn't realize it would be so to find someone that I am attracted to, who has a career, and not a lot of baggage. Understand the lifestyle is more than being locked in a cage, whipped all day, and cockold.
11/12/2010 2:26:05 PM
Yet another one who gets cold feet when it is time to meet.
9/23/2010 6:18:31 PM
Finally getting around to reading "Worshipping yoru Wife" by Mark Remond. It is a pretty easy read. Even though it does not use the D/s terminology the dynamics of the type of relationship discussed in the book fall right in line with the type of D/s relationship I seek. I definitely will have any submissive that I consider read it.
9/18/2010 2:48:19 PM
Tonight is one of those nights where I wish I had a local submissive to serve me. Why is good help so hard to find?
9/7/2010 9:41:58 AM
I had a wonderful time on my long weekend trip to Los Angeles. I had a chance to visit a local BDSM club and to also meet others in the lifestyle.
8/22/2010 3:57:41 PM
Yet another one bites the dust! This one lasted a total of 4 days. Began communication with a "submissive" that actually peaked my curiosity (which is a a rarity) he approached me about his experience in the lifestyle and how he is looking for a D/s relationship and really enjoyed my profile. Of course, first I always begin by asking questions about what it is they seek, how they define D/s and the terminology slave vs submissive? Never fails his response....he does not want to give up control but be wants to be inspired. Not sure what that means??? Not sure why he would be on CM calling himselve a "slave". I think it is about time for another sabbatical from the site because I honestly believe there may be, and I say this loosely, only a handful of true submissive on the site.
8/13/2010 6:34:03 PM
"It is important that a D/s couple is a couple first".
You don't have to be domineering to be Dominant!
7/14/2010 4:07:31 PM
"Being in a D/s relationship doesn't mean being a submissive instead of being a partner, it means being a submissive in addition to being a partner."
6/12/2010 4:44:20 PM
"The greatest of submissive men are gentlemen first.
The fun comes not only from the deep service they provide, but also
when they are alone…with his Mistress and a scene evolves. She knows
him well and because he is indispensible to her, she will make every
fantasy he has come true.
She values him tremendously. He is not less than her, but an
extension of her. He is invaluable because even though he is submissive
to her, he is not submissive to everyone. He serves her, and in that
service comes a sense of joy and purpose. It also defines him as a
man…a strong man…submissive man."
6/12/2010 4:33:19 PM
So True!!!
"Any reasonably attractive Domme can have a just a sub on her
doorstep in ten minutes. But a Domme is a woman going to a higher plain
of femininity. “Just a sub” isn’t what she seeks.
Courting, respect, honor, chivalry, conversation, mutuality of interests, CONNECTION, gets the job done."
6/12/2010 4:22:26 PM
STOP wasting my time!!
5/17/2010 3:31:04 AM
I think it is about time for another sabbatical from this site.
Still not sure why other Dominant men are sending messages desiring to get to know me better. You are a Dominant and I am a Dominant that is a conflict of interest.
5/11/2010 3:45:14 AM
1. How can you want to offer me body worship when I am not attracted to your body? There has to be a few submissives on this site who undertand how important it is to work out and take care of their body. How can you take care of me if you want take care of your most precious gift, your body your temple. To me that is a great sign of discipline.
2. No!! you can not stay at my place in a cage all day. I have a career and earn a paycheck and so should you!
5/10/2010 2:57:29 AM
Another week a new journey!
5/7/2010 3:26:04 PM
READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU RESPOND!!!
5/6/2010 12:28:08 PM
Another day reading messages that I will not respond to. Have the "submissive" men on this site forgotten how to read or do they just hope I have forgotten what it is I seek?
1/13/2010 5:29:49 PM
Figured I would see if anything has changed on the site.
7/11/2009 4:34:06 AM
There has to be some attractive, in athletic shape, successful submissives, who are not 60 somewhere in this world
7/26/2008 7:05:26 PM
See this is what I have to deal with...so sad.
"2 bad im rich u failed u could have had anything"
Sent to me by sirlewis because I told him I do not seek a relationship with another Dominant.
7/3/2008 4:10:20 PM
It should not have to be this hard to find someone on the same page as myself!!
