How to Live (and Die) Frustrated, Lonely & Alone
i was reading through profiles and came upon one Dom who has apparently been on CS and its predecessor Site (CollarMe or CM for those who don't know) since September 7, 2005 without having yet found his right match. Reading his list of demands, this is hardly surprising since the standards he sets leave really very few worthy candidates:
Helen of Troy (with a penis)
Joan of Arc (with a penis)
Marilyn Monroe (without a penis but only if one can be grafted on).
Over the course of 12 years, 5 months and 8 days, this Dom hasn't ever accepted that maybe, just maybe, he needs to adjust his search to more realistic goals. To put how long this is in perspective, that's 4544 days or 109,056 hours or 6,543,360 minutes or 392,601,600 seconds. That's 4 month's longer than Franklin Roosevelt was President and all HE had to deal with was the Great Depression and World War 2.
I'm not saying abandon all standards. I'm saying understand that sometimes the standards are so lofty as to discourage ever finding the right fit. And it isn't just Doms, but many subs as well. Be realistic and honest and maybe one of these days Santa will bring you what you want.