i don't collect pics,,, phones,,, or any other form of trophy... alt clubs are best reserved for exhibitionists,,, bless them.... if you think your dom should wear leather and a mask,,, we are not made for one another...

if 2.2, a white picket fence, and rover are part of your equation then i don't know..

if knowing where you stand always.. if structure and consistency matter and if not being tricked into failure just to be punished matters,, that is a start..

if more and more,, harder and harder,, longer and longer as you are learning,, seems reasonable, that is a good start... maybe we should talk.