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i live in jersey channel islands and i enjoy using the cane iam a dominant male who enjoys control and looking to meet a submissive or a slave woman who enjoys being controled punished and collered .iam well read.love intelligent conversation . and i love the company of submissive woman who can be themselves message me if you like to know more

when it comes to bdsm its a very sophisticated matter its a question of preferance a question of trust between two people and what they feel comfortable with.personaly speaking i love the lifestyle and with the right person it can be fun and harmonious. many people have the perception that the lifestyle is based only on play this is not true its based on mind body and soul and without the right chemistry trust and harmonious comunication one has nothing in this lifestyle but half of what the lifestyle can truly be.i want to know the mind of my possible playmate before i entertain the flesh i must have harmony and understanding mentaly for me this is so important. also many people think being dominant means your cold and you have no sense of humour this is also not true i love to laugh ....another thing that annoys me a great deal is people dont fully understand someone who is submissive they think they lack intelligance this is far from the truth i find submissive woman extremly intelligent and witty perhaps thats why i love making love to their mind before sampling the pleasures of the flesh .please feel free to message me if you like to talk about this topic in a deeper way .and remember you dont need anybodys permission in life to be happy
MsDesiree
 
 Age: 43
 Sanford, Florida