I want the whole package. I can get laid. I can get my kinky needs met.
Im looking for the one that Im going to take care of and more importantly care about. Ive gotten close just not quite there yet. However, I am, if nothing else, an optimist. Lets keep it light and get to know each other.
Ive been around long enough to know what I bring to the table and if youre real and honest about who and what you need in your life then sell me on you. I have a number of subslave friends on this site and Ive seen the low class individuals girls on here have to wade through to get to quality individuals. Unfortunately we do also, just not in the volume that you girls deal with.

Not a switch. Closet switch. Bi-switch. Bi-curious switch. Hetero-flexible switch. Or any combination of these.

Master? Yes.

Dominant? Yes.

Daddy? Yes.

Sadist? A bit .....
OK, more than a bit at times.

Sense of humor? Yes.

Not going to ask you to use a strap-on on Me. At all.
Ever.

I am HAPPY being single. Not desperate for company, companionship, etc. etc.

I like my own company. I am already complete.

HOWEVER.

I am looking for someone that will make my life more interesting and engaging.

In short, BETTER than it is already. And its pretty damn good now....

So, if you think that could be you. Bonus.


The woman Im looking for needs to be a lady in public and a slut when I tell her to be. The place for a leather mini, no panties and fishnets is not when we go to see Phantom ( or Spamalot for that matter ) at the Wortham Theater. Will there be subtle play in these public places? Whispers of intentions and other dark desires and plans for the evening?
Of course. Flirting is good.

Dont confuse civility and courtesy as a lack of dominant will. I will send a brief message the first time because
1. I dont know if youre some scammer trying to sell me a membership to spankadoodle dot whatever.
2. I dont know enough about you to send a long and detailed message about what Im going to do to you. Your punishment may be the next ones pleasure. I may not want you to be happy with what is going on. Or maybe I do. (But dont get me wrong. I know how Im going to find these things out.)
3. I think its a bit creepy.
4. If youre really subslave enough for me then you know that Im right.

I will test your limits because it pleases me.

I will punish you for being a bad girl or whenever it pleases me.

I will challenge you because you need it.
You will trust me when I earn that trust.
I will take care of you if you earn my trust.

Must know how, or learn how, to behave when its time to behave, and play when its time to play.
Will I take the time to teach you?
Of course.
Will I tell what to wear every day?
Maybe, if thats the level of direction that you need. If not thats OK. But I will always have the last word on it.

Will be willing to take on sub with little or no experience.
If you are experienced, be realistic. Im not going to be the same as Sir or Master *******. Im a Dom for Gods sake. By my very nature Im going to do things my own way. Be smart. More importantly, be willing to learn from a Dom that wants to teach you.

I am looking for something long term.
Someone I can trust. That will take care of me and my needs as I attend hers.
A person that I can relax and explore this life with.

I am the real deal. Some refer to as a naturally dominant male with more than 20 years of experience. I know there are a large number of fakes and worse (male and female) on this site. Dont waste my time if youre one of them. Its a Karma thing.