I just got a message, totally ramdom, out of the blue, DO YOU LIKE TO FISH. 

WOW,  what do you even say to that?  I had to ask my friends, Is that a bdsm term you didn't teach me about.  Instantly my mind went to, hmm Do they mean watersports? Is fishing like a term for something involving his pole?

I was very releaved and equally annoyed when my friends said, no, he randomly asked you to go fishing.

To answer the first 4 messages being something related to "I'll train you" I am curious about the SITE, not about the lifestyle.  I have been in bdsm about 6 years and have no interest in learning from any of you. You have nothing to teach me.  Nice try!