Here's a bit of Info Ya might need before actually making an accusation, or an assumption...Now not wanting to assume anything, I'll point out the date of death was the 12th. It's most common for funerals, and/or memorials, usually fall upon the 3rd day following the death. That would make today that day....

  So yes, I will offer an apology for setting my phone down after Your original call, and upon my return from walking some friends out to their cars, I seen the missed call. Now here's the dividing line between those of us with logic, and those of us that just can't escape negativity...Not to mention the red flags You exposed yourself, failing to obtain patience, understanding, nor the ability to remain cool, oh, and let's not forget the fact You SERIOUSLY did send a rude message, completely untrue, and like a scared little child that just threw his ball through the neighbors front window.....Off You ran, and then block adoration from actually giving the other side of the story...

As I stated on the main page of my profile....Of course a Dominant can  make mistakes.....do I feel a Dominant should be capable of remaining calm and logically figure out the entire scenerio, and if one is available, apply the solution to the problem

We shall see if any form of an apology makes it's way to who it should, Heck, making this much sense and proving my point in less than an hour...I would think such efficiency and amount of info retrieved and shared with others, would be qualities within a Good Dominant.