Hi there,

I would describe myself as a switch English gentlemen who is kind caring and gentle but can be more assertive if required. In the past I would have said more sub/bottom than top/Dom but that is changing and I can play both roles and still have fun.

I am not into any scene 24/7 but would like BDSM to play a part in my private life, something to share with someone special. Trust is an important part of any relationship and that is where my love of BDSM springs from. Without trust there is no play.

I am looking for a relationship with an interesting and intelligent lady. Someone with opinions of her own and a mind that she is not afraid to exercise. A love of adventure and the outside world but also happy to cuddle up in front of the TV and watch a film of an evening. I am looking for a relationship first and BDSM second.

I am an adventurous person, in the vanilla world and the bedroom therefore willing to give most things a try. I love PVC and plastic and so any play involving those materials is a bonus for me.

I am happy to live in another country and quite like Canada, although also happy to live in the UK. I am well travelled and have seen much of what the world has to offer so could now settle down somewhere. That said, I am not afraid to travel some more if you wish to, still lots to see of the world. After many years abroad and playing in the various scenes that interest me I have come to the conclusion that all you really need in life is someone to share it with. I like BDSM play but enjoy it in private rather than public, it is part of a relationship not the reason for the relationship. So if you are looking for a man to look after you or to order you around 24/7 then I am not for you. Same applies in reverse, I am looking for an equal partner not a total Domme/sub lifestyle 24/7. If you would like a BDSM component to a meaningful relationship then maybe we should chat and then meet. I am a good guy and fun to be with, staying in or going out I can enjoy most situations. Just one thing, I love snowboarding so be aware that I try to go at least once a year if I can. Well that’s a bit of info to hopefully get you to contact me and ask a few more questions, thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you soon.

Thanks for reading,