Married WM here, mature, married to an awesome asian lady but like a lot of 10 yrs marriages... we no longer have sex... and we don't talk about it. For over a year now I've been having these continuous fantasies of finding a Mature Masculine Dom type buddy who is totally into being the "secret lover" of my asian wife. A Guy who understands my desire to watch a Real Man with a nice cock make love to my wife. Also would be totally open to being cucked by a lady Dom, my wife mentioned something once that made me wonder, if under the right circumstances, she might not be interested in a lesbian lover. So I am looking for any advise that someone in the lifestyle can give me. How can I approach her on this subject? How can I let her know how much I want to be cucked?
She knows nothing about this and she's kind of conservative so I don't know if she'd even be into having an affair. BUT.... I do know this, she is turned on by men who look like vin diesel and bronzed, persian, Latin dancer types. And she has been checking guys out when she thinks I'm not looking. Someone once told me that Japanese women in their early 40's crave sex.
I think Japanese women need more Dominate guys who know and go after what they want. I'm not a dominate sexual type guy so that's probably a big part of us not having a sexual relation. But I'm NOT looking for someone who just wants to have a quick fuck with my wife. Ideally, I am looking 4 a Man's Man who is into seducing her slowly. A Guy who is into the slow seduction until final domination.
My biggest fetish with all this is that I get to watch, but I really don't think she's going to be comfortable with that. She would be more likely to have a secret affair I think. But I want to watch and not miss anything. The thought of watching her willingly get seduced and fucked is such a turn on. I even have the fantasy that Her Dom seduces her and tapes it on a hidden cam and afterwards I come over and I watch it as I slow suck my Dom's Cock still tasting my wife's pussy on his Bull cock! :P
To watch her put on sexy thigh highs, garter belt and 4" slut heels for another man (or woman) would totally blow my mind. I want to see a guy go down on her black silky bush and make her moan, slide his cock head into her wet pussy .... then to realize what a fool i've been all this time not to be more dominate and take more advantage of being with my wife.
