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| Hello! My name is Brandon.
I am relatively new to all this. That is to say, I am relatively new to all this in person. I have been interested in this kind of life style since I was 16. Being a rather big nerd, and a huge fan of reading; I have read countless articles and have many idea's I would love to explore and were interested in until I was 18. At that time till about a year ago, I've had three submissive/slave/pets. All three for more then a year each and all three where extremely happy with me and how I am. One left due to romance with a roommate, one left to have a master/owner in person and the other one had to many personal issues to be able to continue (much to her sorrow).
I have a photo of myself, I am just not going to show it unless asked nicely if you may see it. I have trust issues, and as such would rather get to know you first before just showing off what I look like. Mostly to avoid the judging by book cover situation. So simply ask, which is the safest thing to do by any means and it can't hurt.
I am interested in someone around my age. Between 18 and 28. I'm not interested in someone with a boyfriend or husband and anyone over 35 is going to be a no. I also do not want anyone who is obese. I am more attracted to a person's personality then their appearance, how ever anyone who is extremely overweight is a big turn off. I'm a big guy, but I like small,fit or realistic looking girls (fit as in you look good, even if you are a bit overweight and realistic looking, meaning to say you do not try to be like everyone else). I may sound like an ass, but that might just be due to the fact I can't explain things correctly.
I've been contemplating between being a switch (more dominant switch) or being a dominant. I have, after much consideration and reading of the difference, found that I am a dominant type of person. It isn't your typical kind of dominance since I've been raised to be polite. But I do love to be in control and excel at being a leader or alpha of a group. I'm looking for somebody willing to try anything at least once, and i'm extremely patient. I am shy myself, and usually like to take things at a pace I am comfortable with.
I'm not interested in a one night stand. I'm looking for a relationship with someone who would like to keep the dominance/submissive play to the bedroom, not outside of it. Mostly because I'm a college student at an engineering school, so 24/7 is not feasible nor does it fully interest me.
I'm into pet play, but more of the cuddling aspect to it and name style of it though wouldn't mind exploring more into it.
I'm looking for someone who is willing to try anything at least once, as mentioned before. That is to say, they are willing to experience new things and maybe even help broaden my knowledge by helping me experience new things as well. I want someone caring, loyal and understanding. I have a rough past, which has left me 'broken' in terms of emotions and feelings. So I would want a submissive that is supportive and caring towards that weakness of mine. Since a dominant is there for the submissive, as the submissive is there for the dominant. Also having similar interests is a must, since I can get bored easily otherwise and I don't pay attention to things that bore me.
I'm laid back, quick to laugh and make jokes. I'm observant and thoughtful. Caring and understanding. Strong and silent. Stubborn as well but mostly to try and keep things from bugging or bothering people I care about. I try to avoid drama, but do to being 'broken' emotionally (recovering from depression), sometimes I can't avoid accidentally causing it. So I would want someone understanding of that, and willing to be supportive about it.
I'm pretty sure I could make this profile very fancy, pretty and attractive but I am more so here looking for someone who is submissive and has the same interests as myself. Not here to make a buck or anything like that. I also noticed that I say very little about my actual self. This is because I want you to message me, and talk to me directly to learn more. So that way you can read the book first hand, and not just the review or summary.
However, not to make it anything discouraging I will state some basics about me. I'm currently attending College for Network Engineering. I'm not dumb in the slightest, though I'm bit of an air head when I don't pay attention to things. I'm good at talking to people and am rather friendly. I love to see people laugh, specially those I care about. I also am extremely loyal once I count you as a friend, which means you have more then 75% of my trust. I am poor, so I am not looking to pay for this kind of life style in the slightest. I want it mutual between both parties and we do it cause we like to and want to. Not because you want to make money off it. I am not looking for a 'fuck only' relationship. If that is the case, go find yourself a frat boy (yes I know that is stereotypical of me) because I want someone who I can hold a conversation with as well have fun being around on top of everything else.
Respect earns respect in my opinion. I will give you respect until you do something to lose it. I'm a patient person but have a difficult personality (explained briefly before as "broken') which relates to many issues. I'm an easy going fellow who likes to read, sometimes write and play games that require thought, strategy and fun.
I can be both quiet and observant, or loud and cracking jokes. It all depends on how I feel, or what is going on around me. Most of the time I prefer the quiet and observant, but other times I feel like being the clown. I am not a big fan of large crowds, and prefer to take things at my pace and not be rushed at all.
I am a bit overweight, but that does not mean I am not strong in the slightest. I have proven my strength to others, many of which are surprised with how much I can lift. I do not judge by appearance, since I believe what we look like is only a bonus to how brilliant our personalities can be. If someone looks drop dead gorgeous, but has the personality of a stuck up snob, they would be ugly in my opinion versus someone who looks average but has a brilliant personality, which I would find beautiful.
I am a nerd. I play video games, board games, and card games. I know a lot of things, from random facts to useful facts. I'm an insomniac most of the time unless I am at peace, meaning my brain isn't thinking of something for a good bit of time or if I am exhausted, or sick. I am by no means normal, nor do I think normally. I also am a bit of a weird sports person. I like to play sports, but only for fun not competitively; including basketball, football, soccer, hockey and many more sport games.
So that is that, and this is my profile. My profile picture is something I found online. I thought it was interesting, and it fit both me and my username. If you want to know more, or want to get to know me. Send me a message. Feel free too, I won't bite much.
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