Kink because it's passionate, direct and breaks through hang-ups and constrictive social context. I'm into passion, relieving frustration as a dom and relaxing in surrender as a sub. Leashes, collars and dildos for everyone, seriously, they're the best. Some limitations: I get off on you getting off. Corrupting you into a slut/puppy or being used one. I'm down with sexual stuff being more prominent across one's life, but not so down with anything that actually constrains anyone's agency on the whole. And any focus on psychological humiliation is so not my bag, either giving or recieving. I'm into being topped like a fuck toy, not trashed emotionally. I'm actually pretty fucking awesome and so are you. I have a serious ravenous dom side no doubt, but I'm into a number of fem qualities (fem =! sub) and enjoy dressing as a trap when subbing. Super butch or bear stuff throws me off and most cis-guys fail that test.