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LOOKING OF REAL TIME 24/7 SINGLE OLDER DOMINANT MAN FOR LONG TERM COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP Looking for One who is dominant. I am submissive who loves the lifestyle but appears pretty vanilla well maybe vanilla with a splash of wild. I do not do drugs, smoke or drink. Drugs change who you are and I'm fine with who I am. Smoking is just bad and I don't care for the smell or the coughing. Drinking well I don't have an issue with in moderation. I would probably drink if I liked the taste. I really just don't like the taste of alcohol. It also makes me have to pee. a lot. Not a good thing when you're tied up or servicing the Master. Too many potty breaks put a damper on a Master's mood. LOL I would like to serve a Master who is himself but is not so "flaming dominant" that He has a neon light over him that screams .... "I'm Kinky". The tattoos of bound subs clearly evident on his arms, legs, chest etc... when he sheds his black leather sleeveless vest. Don't be offended ... it is just not what I seek. Oh go ahead write me a scathing reply I love to giggle at the “big bad dominant” who is insulted by little ole me, bless their heart. A Master who controls with the tone of His voice and a look in public that lets his sub know she has crossed or is close to the line. Now she is not always going to fall into line but where would be the fun if it was always a given. She likes to tease her Master and is not opposed to hiding the handcuff key in her mouth at times. I am an older sub and I only wish to serve a Master who is older than me. I'm a strong submissive and anyone younger than me makes me want to spank them!! How dare they talk that way to me I'm old enough to be their mother ... Oh Oh Nooooo! Definitely not into that kink. Daddy's girl yes. Being someone's mother No! So please just go about your search if you are under the age of 55. It does nothing for me to have to spank you for your own good. Of course she has been known to wake the Master up with a little touch of the paddle… she always forgets that there are consequences to such actions that she might not like … but it is toooo tempting. His look at the audacity of his sub/slave to have done such! Oh yes… almost worth it. Ok what else? I am in good health. I take no prescribed medicines and do not need to take any. I am in the process of losing weight that I put on due to circumstances of the last 2 years. I could use a Master to provide motivation for the weight loss it is more pleasing to me to lose it to please a Master than just to lose it. Yes I know all the talk that says you have to use it for yourself. blah, blah, blah. That is for vanilla people not a submissive. So there (sticks out tongue)! Please be a Master who can communicate normally. I am a submissive , a person who enjoys pleasing and honoring her Master. Even a dog only responds to their Master not every want to be Master who barks out commands. Once I belong to You then it is different, mostly, kind of, well it depends how close He is and if He knows where I hid the paddle. Intelligence is a key ingredient. I have little patience with stupid. It cancels out dominance ... how can One be Dominant over another if they are not as intelligent? Yes, One can be Sadistic but not Dominant. There is a major difference in my little submissive mind. Not asking for Einstein just normal or above. Ok figure it out if I've hidden the key in my mouth before would it not be smart to check the next time? Let's see who else can I piss off. I'm sure I've pushed a few buttons. This is however a place where we are suppose to be able to state our wants, needs etc... without having to be politically correct. I'm not judging anyone else just stating my wants needs. Those of you who are going to write stupid replies and be offensive let it be known as soon as I ascertain that you are an idiot or just plain rude I just block you. And by the way, I don't agonize over it or lose any sleep cause "I'm a stuck-up slut" etc... Poof with the push of a button you are gone forever and wiped out of existence. Kinda would like one of those buttons in the real world. Man that would be cool. Guess I would need an undue button I am sure sometimes I would be too fast on the draw. LOL As far as service to my Master I have never not serviced Him when, where and how he requested. Of course, there is always the possibility of a first time. Also, not saying that One might have to put up with some whining, whimpering, and crying. I do not discuss boundries as they are different for each person and the circumstances at the time. I find it a waste of time. My Master should be able to ascertain my boundaries. It is part of his job description not mine. I am a pretty upbeat person, no depression etc… I try to make my Master’s world that is under my control as pleasant and pleasurable as I am able. That is not to say I don’t get upset on occasion. I am still human not a robot. I am pretty drama free. Speaking of drama free… I am a widow and also have an ex-husband who is the father of my 2 children. The children are grown and have children of their own. Therefore I have little if any communication with my ex. I am looking for the same. Children grown and not living with you or no children and any ex-whatever is definitely that an ex. I am not looking for someone who has regular chats, phone calls, mind melts etc with any ex in their life. Great if you are friends, but not friends who communicate regularly. Yes your relationship with an ex may be different and you have no feelings for her you just help her with her issues and her boyfriends, and her finances, and her whatever. Well that is too much “non-relationship” for me. Color me green. Call me jealous. I don’t care. I give a big applause for those who are poly amorous. I know myself and “myself” says no. You need to be SINGLE not separated, not starting the process of divorce, not going to tell your partner soon. SINGLE That is SINGLE in mind, body and soul. The fantasy side of that is a different story and I can and will share those with you. I can fantasize about serving my master alongside of another but the reality bites… I mean I actually biteJ and my trigger finger itches. Ok those of you who are going to write me that a “true” submissive would work towards only pleasing her Master and not have issues with Him having multiple submissives in real life or cyber because that is who he is. Listen up there is not a handbook for Master /Dom and Slave/Sub relationships. Ok actually there are but those One can choose to follow or just get real and make a relationship that pleases both people who cares if “rules” are followed. Please insert the Charlie Brown cartoon sound when grownups talk …. Blah blah blah. If You need multiples, or even think that you need multiples (different than fantasying) then you are not the One for me it is easy, quick, and painless on everyone. Hiding such tendencies is not a good idea the truth always, repeating, always comes out. I am sure I have revealed too much. I will be loved for who I am and I will love you for who you are. Easy, no one has to try to change the other just kiss, hold hands and journey down the rest of the road together her bottom red and his hand tingling. A little kink makes the world better. Oh about pictures. I live in a vanilla world. I therefore do not post pictures at least ones that are me. If we chat and end up thinking that we might be interested in furthering the relationship. I will send vanilla pic. I will not send nudity. My nudity belongs to my Master and the neighbors. I will not be coerced either. Geeze some of you Doms whine better than I do.. and that is saying a lot. The others who bark orders, well I have that silence button.
charmaine
 
 Age: 20
 New York, New York