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| I have spent many years looking for a man to take hold of me and lead me deeper down into myself. At times desperately, which left me following the wrong people for the wrong reasons. My inclination is to please at all costs and the cost has been great.
Despite that, i am here. Armed with the knowledge that it takes a strong minded, intelligent and patient man to own another living being, whether it be a dog, slave or goldfish. He needs to understand the limitations of what he is working with and patiently mold that creature into being its best for him. Granted that might be less interesting with a goldfish.
I am a short and round bodied blue eyed girl with very pale sensitive skin. I will share pictures with the right people. I am not shy, just avoiding the "kneel slut" cyber troll factor as much as possible.
I just moved to Orange County from the San Francisco Bay Area although I'm a born NYer. Yes, that makes me a loud liberal. I'm also extremely playful, loving and kind. I generally am a leader outside of the house but have always been slave/pet identified to my partners. I am less about the SM and more about DS oriented extreme devotion.
If you are interested in me, please write thoughtfully.
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I see many profiles here that don't seem to understand what a 24/7 relationship is about. It doesn't mean that you're sexual every moment of every day or that you have to micromanage every moment. It simply means that the underlying dynamic is always at the root of the connection whether you're at a movie or in the bedroom.
Yes there are fantasies of being caged for weeks but it isn't particularly practical in the real world. You can do it for multiple days, on vacation or even every day for a period of time if your relationship and lifestyle allow it. Being real people doesn't make the relationship any less "real".
The best Owners tend to be the ones who are able to hold a both/and mentality. They can see the many facets of the relationship and design a life that works well for their specific situation. |
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I am at a vulnerable point in my life. I've lost direction and can't seem to shake this lack of purpose that resonates throughout me. When things are more stable, i rarely have time to seek out a relationship because i tend to become a workaholic however as soon as things calm down there is a huge hole there. I'm not motivated by money or a successful career the way that most are. I'm capable of having that success, but I find it draining. My soul suffers through it, rather than being proud of it. I'm happier on my hands and knees at someones feet than at the head of a boardroom table. When my life is dedicated to another I thrive. |
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Hints to get my attention:
Have a detailed profile that is more positive than negative
Write more than a sentence in your email
Don't cut and paste a response
Be located within one day's drive of me
Make the first move. |
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| Age: 39 |
| Norfolk,
Virginia |
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