This must be the place...who needs a map? 

So its been a good 3 months or so since I last logged on here and it took me til now to get back, and that by happenstance.  I got lost it would seem.  There are a lot of sites out there that can obfuscate a mans focus to the point of distraction.  Their agendas and those of many participants therein are all about getting paid- which is fine to an extent but it can take the fun out of the idea when the scene seems to hold nothing of enjoyment for the other person involved in wanting to be there from a pure kink standpoint, that they are watching the clock. Theoretically at least... 

But what would I know? 

I stopped the search for my butt-holey grail of a femdom etc scene having become disenchanted and removed from the excitement of the idea almost completely...lots of scammy- or at least disingenuous- stuff flying around.  

Still the underlying truth that I am so very ready to cross this threashold of personal exploration was not to be ignored...and, as it turned out, neither was I.  There was a message waiting for me when I finally regrouped and, today, stumbled back upon this site... I remembered that it had promise.  And so perhaps it does- as luck would have it, her message was from September and she is no longer active...no surprise four month later.

Maybe she was booted as a bot or it was not even her...

Still, I have a feeling that my destiny is close at hand- perhaps yours...

All good things cum...and some bad ones I hope too...