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shady5203

Hi there, I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for the past 7 years off and on and have recently decided I want to get more actively involved in looking for what will satisfy me. What I am looking for ideally: I am looking for women that are bisexual or at least willing to explore with me and my fiance. Whether it be for one night, or a long term thing depends on how well we click, various expectations and where we all want it to go. What would be involved in the exploration part would include various BDSM scenes that may or may not include sexual activities. I am a switch that has experience both topping and bottoming in scenes, however I have only ever had experience as a submissive in relationships. What I am open to: I realize that finding a single, bisexual girl, is really difficult, as I've seen them called all over the place "A Unicorn". Because of this, I am also open to exploring different things with another couple. My fiance is not bisexual so will not be taking part in any guy on guy action. This again, can include both BDSM and sexual activities. It would be interesting to find a Dominant/submissive couple that could show my fiance some stuff as he is very new to the lifestyle and is interested in learning different things. I have been able to teach him some stuff, but not very much at the moment. Expectations: This can be a one night, or long term thing - either with the single girl or the couple, again, it depends on how well we hit it off, and what we are all comfortable with and looking for. All participants to be disease free. This should go without saying, however you can't be too careful. Obviously all safe practices will be used (condoms, safe words, safe calls, etc). Because of the physical nature of what I am looking for, this means that I don't want online play. **The exception to this would be a unicorn that is willing to relocate to Calgary (or area), Alberta or lives somewhere nearby(ish) to begin with.** About me: I am a nerd. Plain and simple. I enjoy things like World of Warcraft, Dungeons and Dragons, board games, Fantasy Novels (I'm currently making my way through the Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan and Brandon Sanderson), Game of Thrones, etc. I enjoy watching movies both out and at home. I enjoy trying new restaurants. I enjoy a lot of different things. If you want to know anything else about me, please don't hesitate to ask. I'm an open book and will answer any questions (that are non-offensive) that are asked of me. I hope to hear from you soon!
raven7
 
 Age: 37
 Des Moines, Iowa