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Hello. Thanks to everyone who has been patient with me the last few months and those who offered advice and ideas to me as this profile was rewritten. I have spent many hours making this revised profile as complete as possible. If there is something I may have missed, please let me know, so it can be added or revised. Thank you.

I have been around the D/s lifestyle for a long time now and have discovered all the things about myself and D/s that fit with me, and those that do not. During our younger years, submissives such as myself, have friendships and relationships with Dommes, switches, and other submissives that form who we are. Having had those relationships and friendships in my life has made me who I am.

At this stage in my life I find this is the person I am: A loving, caring, friendly, supportive submissive, who is also loyal, smart, giving, detail-oriented and helpful. While I am not seeking a 24-7 collared, owned relationship at this time, I am also mature enough to know that you never say never, because who knows what will happen in the future.

I do value the relationships and friendships that I've been lucky to make thanks to this site and continue to seek more of them. I seem to get along best with female Dominants who are more into Domination & submission than other aspects of the lifestyle. I also click well with female Dominants who used to be submissives, and can understand in their heart as well as their head what makes them and I tick in our lives as Dominants and submissives.
Along those lines, I also match-up well with newer Dominants, either new to the lifestyle completely who want to learn about D/s, or former submissives, who have moved on to a Dominant role, and have a desire to be a better Dominant. Also, age doesn't seem to be a major barrier for me. I have more in common with Dommes in their thirties and up, but also get along just fine with Dommes eighteen to twenty-nine.

While I respect the other variations of D/s and those that practice such, I am not really a good match for you. Some of those include: Financial Domination: I am not in this for money. Mind-control Domination: no interest, sorry. Service Domination: I am not here to wash your car and scrub your floor, you are looking for a slave, not a submissive. Online only Domination: A D/s relationship that's only online is not a serious one and not for me. Contract Domination: I just don't believe in it. A true D/s relationship's number one component is trust. If you can't trust in the other person to be a complete partner, then the relationship won't work, contract or not. Again, this is an ever-evolving lifestyle, so if you have questions about my views on D/s, don't hesitate to ask.

Just the rest of the details below. I have tried not to reuse any of the details already listed above. I have put this at the bottom, because as one Domme astutely pointed out: if you start with the basics, people will just read that and not the whole profile.

I am: a submissive, happy, great sense of humor, will do what you ask of me except limits, follow instructions very well, respectful,
ready to try new things, and always willing to learn, or help someone else learn. I am always safe, sane, and consensual. That's the good details. Now let's get the not-so-good details out there.

I am: stubborn and tempermental at times. I am nothing special in the looks department. I have been told I am high maintenance. If wanting the touch, or to hear the voice of a Domme, to know you belong to her makes me high maintenance, then I guess I am. I have been told I have the emotions of a girl. I usually wear my emotions on my sleeve for better or for worse. I am bitchy or bratty sometimes, and I am not afraid to cry. There is life to be lived, and D/s takes a back seat sometimes. I am commited to anyone I have a D/s relationship with, but life doesn't stop for you or for me.

Other details: I am not a slave. I am not poly within a D/s relationship. I can only submit to a Domme who only wants one submissive. Whatever relationship a Domme or I has outside of D/s is irrelevant. It has nothing to do with us. I am also not interested in beastiality, needles, drugs, permanent markings, piercings, chastity, cuckolding, baby and kid play, forced-bi, bi-curious, and bathroom play.

Thank you for taking the time to read my rewritten profile. And again thanks, to all who were patient waiting for me to get it done, and those who offered thoughts, ideas, and constructive criticism.

I wish everyone the best of luck in their search for whatever they are looking for in this life and outside it.
dbw713
 
 Age: 30
 Maryland, California