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| I'm submissive guy in my mid-30s (obviously.) I'm looking to find a relationship with an authentic and genuine dominant woman that understands how to balance vanilla and D/s. I'm not looking to live a 24/7 fantasy, but want a multidimensional life where my partner is more or less the leader most of the time -- but still gives me space to be me.
Like most people with this proclivity I do have kinky desires that surfaced during puberty, and for most of my adult life I had decided that I was basically a normal heterosexual that likes kinky stuff in the bedroom etc. However, recently I've been doing some soul searching, and I now realize that there is something distinctly different about me. 5 years ago, I would have defined what I'm seeking as someone that's basically "normal" but with a particular sexuality. However, I now know that I'm looking for someone that isn't just sexually dominant, but dominant in a variety of respects.
I might have been raised to be a normal heterosexual male, but while my high-school friends were having wet dreams about "taking girls" I was having wet dreams about "being taken." Biologically I'm male, but psychologically I'm female, which doesn't mean that I want to dress in women's clothing or change genders etc. However, I'll just never be the confident macho loud-mouth that most women are attracted to. Physically I'm masculine, but under the hood I'll never be like the other guys -- and I'm looking for a woman that can accept that, and love me for that -- a feminine woman that's not quite like the other girls -- and ideally a woman that wants to have a family someday.
I have met one or two girls from this site, but none of them were life-style compatible. I try to take care of myself, and live a very healthy active life (swimming/running/dancing etc.) and I'm looking for the same. I don't care if she's 5'1" or 6', I don't care if she's a body builder or a ballet dancer, Asian, African, Caucasian etc. but please be fit healthy, and capable of holding a decent conversation.
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