Hello. Thank you for reading my profile. This is a profile about me because I think it's important for you to know about me if your seriously considering interacting.
I'm however actually much more interested in you. Please tell me about you but, please, not just a list of things you think I can do for you. If you are scratching around for a method of approach why not try an approach where you tell me how we could make each other happy?
I'm partnered. My partner, Heath, is ftm. We're inter dependent but not co dependant. We both have permission to have friends and fun. He 'might' be interested but this is not a two for one proposition. Heath works shifts and is in any event very happy to share me so I can travel or accomodate.
We are both STD checked every 3 months and on PReP.
What I'm looking for.
I get on well with women and enjoy their company. I'm also great at sex and or kink with women. The main reason I'm on here however is that im looking for a man or non binary person with a willy or a fairly masculine woman with a strapon and an enthusiasm to use it within a bdsm scene. I'm never free 'now' I work full time and have a family life.
Im looking for a friend long term or short term.
For me a friend is someone open to friendship. Someone who is honest about what they want. Someone who is interested in the welfare of others as well as their own welfare.
I love playing, kink, sex, giving orgasms, laughing, talking, dancing, sucking, licking, kissing, stroking, exploring and adventures.
I have a play room, gyne chair, spanking bench, cross, wet room, dark cellar, high chair and adult cot. Lots of kit, outfits, restraints, canes, floggers, gags etc. Given that many venues are closed I'm think it is good that we could play on a one on one basis at home.
I love going to kinky parties and playing at home.
I'm cheerful, respectful, sensual and genuinely interested in people.
So whether you fancy a chat, an adventure, a flogging or an orgasm as a friend drop me a line.
References available on request.
Who I am
On FL as MissAdele.
I'm on the trans spectrum. Do have a look at the fl profile for newer pictures. I'm not gender political. People call me Richard, Sarah or my scene ne Adele as it suits them. I'd say that I was more of a middle than male or famale. People are people to me.
I work in a reasoning profession.
I cycle, read, laugh, cook, dance, hug, kiss, give, receive, teach, learn and live.
Where I've been
Between 18 and 21, whilst at university, I was a professional dungeon maid - I still provide a bit of forced bi cock for a couple of prodomme friends from time to time.
I've been married, been divorced, been a sub to a psychopath, been a dom to a co-dependant adult baby.
I'm the father of a successful, well balanced adult son.
I've been the victim of sexual, physical and psychological abuse - I've mostly recovered.
I've had girfriends, wives, boy friends, masters, submissives.
And now, after a fair bit of introspection and psychotherapy I'm not a lable or an act: I'm me.
Because I'm a middle I treat everyone on the m to f spectrum the same - like proper people. Sorry that means I totally rubbish at flirting and all this wierd 'under and up' mis direction that seems to happen.
Despite being on here I personally do not see good bdsm or indeed sex as power play.
Consent, directness, mutual respect, honesty, listening mean everything to me.
Im still a work in progress:listening is still an area of weakness.
So if I'm not into power play why am I on here?
Because I like people, I like taking charge for a while. I like other people taking charge for a while. I like watching people grow. I love kink. I love giving and receiving orgasms.
Other things I'd like to to do with someone
Kink clubs, swinging clubs, munches, walks, cycling, sailing, cinema, theartre, weekends away, a simple coffee and cake.
Am I top or a bottom?
Well I'd really really like to find someone who likes to be in charge sexually and or kink wise, I love being tied up, I love c. p.
However I'm 46 and I'm experienced. I realise that most people want me to top them. I like people and I'm agreeable and off we go.
These days it's mostly chatting and coffee and cake.
What do you get out of it?
A friend, a play mate, a party mate, some where to play outside the covid storm, a companion, a teacher, a pupil, a spanker, a spankee, a confidant, lots of laughs, adventures, a space mental, emotional or physical that's safe for you to be you.
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