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2/4/2006 3:48:50 PM

FOR SLAVES & SUBMISSIVES - Male & Female alike:

1. DO NOT GIVE YOUR MONEY TO DOMS/DOMMES ASKING FOR IT. A REAL DOMINANT WILL TEACH YOU HOW TO BE A GOOD SLAVE/SUBMISSIVE WITHOUT ASKING FOR MONEY OR "GIFTS".

2. DO NOT GIVE YOURSELF IN ANY WAY TO A DOMINANT YOU HAVE *JUST* MET, BE IT SEXUALLY OR MONETARILY.

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I felt the need to write this having seen too many profiles here, from "Dom/Dommes" who casually ask for money.

While it is a natural instinct of mine to go "What?? I will send you money... why exactly?? You offer me nothing!", not everybody has this instinct.

Their mere claim to your bank account is because they are "Dominant". Learn now and for all - that REAL Dominants do not ASK, BEG, DEMAND, EXTORT money from their submissives or slaves.

No matter how they do it - whether sweetly, casually or with force, nobody has the right to your possessions unless you are FULLY owned by them. And THAT - Full ownership by your Master/Mistress - will compel you, yes compel, you to give yourself up in all ways, including monetarily and all other things you may possess, be it a house, a car, your business.

I am always appalled to read Dom/Domme's profiles where they put on that play-pretend air of Domliness, where they confuse caring and owning a slave/sub, for a victim from which they can coax money.

I know well what it takes to be a slave. Yes, you want to be respected AND disrespected. Yes, you want to be fully owned and taken. Yes, you want to be taken care of and be abused too.

We seem to be creatures of contradiction. Our paradox can cause some of us to misunderstand themselves. I say this because - In order for YOU, the slave/submissive, to give away your self-respect, your ideals, your principles to your Dom/Domme, you NEED to have them in the first place.

If you don't respect yourself enough to realize that there ARE bad, immoral people out there who just want things for THEMSELVES, then go ahead and let yourself be trampled upon, go ahead and let yourself be disrespected. Just be aware that 5 or 10 years down the line, when you finally mature, you will realize how tremendous a mistake you made. And we, your slave/submissive friends, can only hope that those fake Doms/Dommes did not destroy your love to serve and your desire to be truly owned.

The only thing that makes us, D/s or BDSM people different from vanilla-folks is that we seek a different LIFESTYLE. We express love in a different way. We need to live our lives on a different core of values. Our D/s world has a different landscape and panorama. THAT is the only thing that differentiates us from vanilla people.

What we do have in common with them is this - There are bad people everywhere. In which ever community you go. White, black, asian, african, alien, BDSM, hell you name it.  And yet slaves/subs do not think this is true.

For once AT LEAST - when you meet a new Dom/Domme, use all your powers of reasoning and see things clearly as they are. Do not give yourself up to someone in the first go.

Even if you are a slave or a submissive, your Master/Mistress should be worthy of you. NO - I did not just utter a non-sub sentence. Neither have I just been disowned by the Slave/Sub Alliance.

Think of it this way - You can serve your Master/Mistress FULLY, MISERABLY HAPPILY and HAPPILY MISERABLE, only if you are in sync with Him/Her.

A BDSM relationship is not that different from vanilla relationships (aside from the kink level and the different lifestyle).  People still seek the same attributes in a relationship - compatibility, trust, respect, affection, love, honor, integrity. If your pseudo Dom/Domme offers you none of this, or only a few in this list, then you are with the WRONG Dom/Domme. You want a relationship where you GET something in return - what you get is this: You learn to be a BETTER person AND a BETTER slave/sub.

Only with the Dominant you were meant to be with, will you be used, abused, respected, dispected, loved, ordered around, cajoled, treated as a human and as a pet with.

If you do not want to believe me, simply search the internet for horror stories. You will find that many sweet and loving slaves/subs were used, played with and thrown away. Some were financially ruined. Some contracted sexually transmitted diseases. But all bear emotional wounds.


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morwenlotesse
 
 Age: 20
 Ozark, Alabama