Just looking around to see what's out here...in the past zero luck as most, well...that's a long story.

Here's a little about me so if you match, let's talk. Pictures available upon request but can't send from this site so you'll have to email me your regular email address to get them.

I'm quite the "normal" guy in many respects but sexually I enjoy all types of pleasures that we both agree on. I'm not one to act my age though am mature. I'm more of a leader than a follower in all aspects of my life and always take the road less traveled with adventure being the determining factor in most decisions.

I have varied tastes in all types of entertainment and am looking for someone who likes to do more than just get their ass whipped though that could be fun as well sometimes if it's something you like.

I'm looking for someone who is also "normal" in most respects but has a kinky streak in her. She can be submissive, switch, or even dominant at times. I do lean more toward the submissive type but switches and dominants in the sexual sense aren't bad either and intelligence is a turn on. I'm respectful of a woman's desires and intelligence but have my own beliefs in regard to their roles in a relationship between two people. I'm kind and gentle when the time is right and can also be demanding and rough when the time is right in all aspects of life.

Intimacy takes many forms from the light touch to the face to a hard spank to the backside followed by sensual kisses.

If there is something you enjoy I may like it too though I'm not into cutting, bleeding, scat, or other things like that.

I have a very high sex drive and would like someone who is the same but it's not all about sex despite what you may be thinking.

The D/s relationship for me is "mostly" in a sexual sense but could be expanded to a reasonable degree beyond that if it's something you enjoy.

I'm not looking to beat someone senselessly, make them my foot stool, or lock them in a cage, be fed from a dog bowl or tied to a tree for hours. Granted, I'm open to experimenting with all forms of bdsm and perhaps I'd like it if we both find it enjoyable so again open to suggestions.

I'm not one to have to control your every action and like independent thinkers who can decide many things on their own.

I enjoy bondage and other types of BDSM but don't run my life around it but is a sensual part of my life and should be part of yours as well. If bdsm runs every aspect of your life then we probably aren't a good match.

I want someone who wouldn't mind stretching their limits both sexually and sensually and can hold an intelligent conversation while freely telling me their likes and dislikes in normal and bdsm life.

I'm considered intelligent, strong, caring, and attentive to the people I'm involved with. I prefer women my age or younger, and slim to average. No offense to anyone but it's just the type I'm attracted to.

I'm average in build and don't expect perfection from anyone as perfection is in the eye of the beholder anyway but I'm sure there is someone who can be perfect for me who is wanting to grow a mutually enjoyable relationship.

If you've gotten this far and still interested, get in touch. We could begin an intimate friendship and possibly a lot more.