90% dominant/10% sub is seeking a genuine F switch. I am looking to find a lady that mostly enjoys being submissive for pleasure and pain, but on occasion likes to dominate. Looking for real life sessions. LTF preferred, not looking for permanent nor 24/7.

I've been into bdsm most of my life.
I enjoy many things in the bdsm scene, especially bondage and spanking to name a few. Play can be sensual, or strict, or anywhere in between. If you are into role play there are a number of scenarios we can try. My hard limits on play include permanent marks, breaking skin, injury, animals, children, and scat.

An Alpha male personality in real life, I like being in control. I am looking for a lady that chooses to be either a slave or submissive when we are together, but can hold her own when we are apart. I treat my partners with the respect they desreve, so if you choose to be a door mat we will probably not get along.


Much as I like being in control, there are times when I need to account for my behavior. Few things put a man in his place faster than a determined lady who knows how to use a hairbrush.

If you feel we have areas in common, let's get better acquainted. I am looking for real life - not cyber play, nor web caming. We can chat here some but I desire to work towards meeting real life.