Collarspace.com

I like a lot of different things.
If you like one or more of these and are interested in building a relationship based on trust & mutual respect then I hope you will contact me.  Breast Play, Massage, Bondage/Shibari, Fisting, Flogging, Clothespins, Medical Play, Vacuum Pumping, Toys/Vibrators, Ass Play, Spanking, Wax.  I would like to learn more about tantra / taoist esoteric yoga.

I am the tall, skinny intellectual type. If you are sex-positive and nerd-positive then I hope you'll contact me.  If you are superficially smokin' hot or looking for someone who is then I hope you won't.

Love to kiss and touch, give full body massages and powerful orgasms.

I am looking for someone who craves sexual intensity, someone who desires to serve, to give and receive pleasure. If you are an endorphin junkie all the better.

I am a regular guy who is looking for a regular gal.  I am looking for friends in general as well.  I have been into BDSMLMNOP for ages, but I have a "real life" too.

Thanks for reading & feel free to send me an e-mail.  I will answer all.
4/29/2009 6:25:20 PM
Book list:  Would love to discuss these and would like to hear your favorites & recommendations too.
Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice
Modern Primitives (Re/Search)
ESO [extended sexual orgasm]
Macho Sluts
Amy Vanderbilt's new complete book of etiquette: The guide to gracious living
The Loving Dominant
Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy

4/29/2009 5:56:21 PM
I finally got around to deleting my profile on bondage dot com.  Once it got taken over by a megacorp and became a pay site, there wasn't any point.  I'll transfer some of the info over once I get Firefox to let me cut & paste.  There was one person I wish I could have contacted, and it does not look like she has a profile here. :-(
11/2/2008 2:58:38 PM
What is up with all the fake profiles on ALT?  You know, the ones with screen names like omglasdhdf.
6/16/2008 5:19:56 PM
Your Kink Is OK.

Thank you, I feel much better now.
4/21/2008 4:55:09 PM
Sorry for not having a photo.  I do have a photo I can trade if you might be interested.  But I should warn you I am not particularly good looking; not bad looking either.  The more superficial you are the less happy you will be.
4/5/2008 3:01:24 PM
Life is too short to have bad sex.  This is a great web site that discusses sacred sex, spiritual sex, sex magick, extended orgasm, tantra, karezza, etc. -- "divine ecstasy while making love".

http://www.luckymojo.com/sacredsex.html
4/4/2008 6:26:24 PM
I just realized that collarme's interest list does not include clothespins or floggers.  Put me down for "love it" on those two.
3/31/2008 7:08:45 PM
Favorite books:  Leatherfolk, The Loving Dominant, The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, Urban Aboriginals, Modern Primitives, The Joy of Sex, The Art of Sensual Massage
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 Age: 40
 Youngstown, Ohio