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Hmm...how to say enough that it still intrigues someone to write you and want to find out more without being so wordy and cumbersome that your lengthy profile gets skipped completely? How to say it in such a way that you sound honest, without tipping too far into either the realms of conceit or self-deprecation? I'll do my best, and if you have any questions, would like me to elaborate or clarify anything, please don't hesitate to contact me. :-) I'm definitely a Daddy-dom. I enjoy organization, strict rules, schedules, and expected patterns of behavior. I'm also a sadist, but not to the point of being frightening. Inflicting pain gets me off, but only if I know my partner is either getting off on the pain itself, or relishes satisfying his/her partner's desires and fantasies, or understands the importance of a reward/punishment system. To me, BDSM is very intimate and personal, and as such I haven't been to many public scenes or kink gatherings. I look at a fetish-laden scene as an opportunity to reveal one's true self and use sex and kink play as a form of release and catharsis, and this extends to more TPE and non-sexual dynamics, as well. On the more vanilla side, I have a huge interest in writing - as a high school student, I wanted to be a poet or a novelist; as an adult, I've considered changing my major (previously Creative Writing with a Philosophy minor) to Poli-Sci and writing for political journals. Speaking of, I consider myself to be very socially libertarian and economically progressive. I'm a huge gamer nerd, being a giant fan of both the early Final Fantasy franchise and World of Warcraft. I still have an old school SNES and original PS with dozens of games. I'm also an avid reader, and I enjoy creative and exciting television and movies, and even low-brow comedies if they are inventive and creative enough (I'm thinking Archer, early Family Guy, and mid-life South Park). Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Community, Firefly, Titus, Samurai Jack, M.A.S.H., HIMYM, Third Rock From The Sun, Jon Stewart's Daily Show, and almost any stand up comedy special (Sam Kinison, Louis CK, George Carlin, Chris Rock, Kevin Hart, Kevin Smith for starters, all put out great hour-long specials) - a good starter list for my favorite shows. Movies would include (but are definitely not limited to) Star Wars, Role Models, The Postman, Independence Day, Christopher Nolan's Batman series, Fight Club, Empire Records, 10 Things I Hate About You, Out Cold, High Fidelity, Iron Man, Shawshank Redemption. I am a Marine Corps veteran (one tour in Iraq, Sept '04-April '05), and the active lifestyle gave me a love for running. It has been awhile, but I'm trying to get back into shape and match and beat my old best run times, as well as my peak fitness level. I'd like to find a good gym in my area with a personal trainer to start heavy lifting to build mass (I was "lean-fit" while on active duty). I am also a divorcee (though that ended a long time ago) and the father of two young boys. I'm also more of a "dog person", but I don't hate cats (I actually have one of my own). I've never had the pleasure of a full-time, long-term submissive. I've had vanilla relationships with kink interspersed into them, and I've had casual, short- and long-term subs and slaves, but nothing ever designed or intended to be permanent. I would definitely like to change that. I was raised in a very progressive, forward-thinking, and feminist household, so I see the value in non-monogamous relationships - but I neither need nor require one. In the same way I've always appreciated a sub who cooks my favorite meal without asking, or buys me a tie or an article of clothing she thinks I would like, without having been asked, I think it's sexy when a sub seduces and brings home a beta-sub to either play with his/her dom as an alpha sub, or to sub alongside in service to his/her sir. "Extra martial treats" are always appreciated and awards, but again, never required. Regardless, I am looking for a single long-term partner to not only dom, top, and delegate orders and instructions to, but to love, cherish, teach, and care for (daddy dom, remember?). It's hard for me to specify a "type", but I think what makes a person - especially a woman - beautiful and sexy is her confidence and faith/trust in her own natural traits, and knows herself well enough to use and develop them to the best of their ability. It's not by any means a deal-breaking list, but I do find myself most commonly attracted to younger (23-29), shorter (5'4" or tinier) blondes, redheads, and Hispanic women with average or fit builds. I am definitely a "legs and ass" man.

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8/10/2016 9:08:06 AM
While I do appreciate the attention and emails, I need to clarify that I'm looking for something real in a relationship.  Someone with ambition and desire in their motives for a partnership, who is serious about their submission, loyalty, and thoughtfulness.  With that in mind, it should go without saying that I'm looking for someone who fits my desired parameters for a partner and that, probably most importantly on that list, includes proximity.

Though I'm sure it will fall on deaf ears, I just want to warn anyone who emails me from halfway across the world, halfway across the country, or even halfway across the state that I probably won't be reading your emails, or taking them very seriously if I do.  If you are looking for friends or an online pen pal, or just want to comment or ask a question about something you read on my profile, that's great.  But I am located where I am located and, for reasons that are quite frankly none of your business, that likely won't change outside of a 30-mile radius any time soon.  Unless you have both the ability and desire to make your way to me before you even write your first email, it might not be worth it to do so.  From this point on I will consider all such emails to be spam and immediately reported as such and deleted.

7/28/2016 11:48:59 PM

(Moved from my main profile)  06/22/16 EDIT:  While I'm still working on getting this profile filled out, I do need to make a note here.  I have been getting a loooot of messages from male/tv/trans subs and slaves, especially older ones.  While I do want to say that I am very flattered at the compliments and interest, when it comes to male and trans sub/slaves, I am only attracted to and interested in **passable** tv/trans and male sub/slaves who are close to my age or younger, my height or shorter, and thinner, more "twink"ish in appearance.  Alt/emo/boi subs and slaves move to the top of the list.  ;-)

 

So again, while I do appreciate that so many of you are attracted to and interested in me as your dom/master, I will no longer be answering new email conversations from any non cis females who don't meet the above criteria.  Thank you.


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DomElla
 
 Age: 24
 Manchester, Canada