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The Possibilitiesare only as great, as the risks you are willing to take.

On here searching for One true sub who needs both the structure and discipline of this lifestyle, but is also interested in a relationship as well. A perfect mix of Kink and vanilla, that is constantly evolving, growing, getting better with time....and practice! I seek a friend and lover who knows and understands that this is only a part of who we are. That play time is not the same as real time, and that real time is all the time! Someone who wants a long term relationship with a real commitment.

I am not drawn to weak women. Women of strength and intelligence will always get my attention first and foremost.

This can only work if the mental connection, that special bond, exists in our heads first. I enjoy a wide variety of activities, especially travel. I like to stay active and actually do things.

Please do not mistake my desire for reality to mean that Iam less than Dominant, incapable of intensity. I assure you I am most capable. The look in my eyes, the sound of my voice....as powerful as any whip.....

I do not post pictures because I have children, all older of course, an extended family, and a real job. Enough said. I am for real, not married orwith anybody at this time.I have and will exchange pictures with anybody once I am sure there is a sincere interest, but Im not going to contribute to collectors. Voice verification is always acceptable however and one simply needs to ask.

I am more than willing to speak with anybody. There is alwaysthat bit of discovery,so itonly makes sense to do so.It is through that discovery however, that we may find ourselves compatible...or not.I would not take offense if it is not to be and neither should you.My decision to not pursue is not a judgment of you..it is a confirmation of me

If you are interested please let me know. I prefer a few emails to make sure we are on the same page, followed by a phone call or two and then.....?
8/16/2017 8:19:41 AM
Ive seen the poster...the Dominant puts his hand on her crotch and says "Mine"
Ok, I get it I guess but I am not like others, that much Ive learned.

I will put my hand on your Heart and say "Mine".  When YOU put my hand on your
Heart and say "Yours" THEN both will be true
11/6/2013 7:28:55 AM

I find it so amazing how some on here can go from sweet to outright rude and obnoxious in a matter of mere seconds. So unattractive, and so worth pushing a few buttons to find it out sooner, rather than later. Three years later....people still rude. Guess it must be me!

5/12/2013 5:49:43 PM

I have messaged more than a few, and to be honest, many do reply. Still so many do not, or they turn out to be either men or others seeking only money...which Im not sending to anybody. Worse still, are the ones that are simply rude and arrogant. Strange considering the site and all. So for now at least, Im not likely to message. Not giving up, just not being as aggressive in my search. Feel free to send me even a simple hello, and I will respond, politely, always.

9/14/2012 10:06:13 AM

 A kiss, not just any kiss, but one filled with passion....intensity.....all consuming.....and so very powerful. More powerful than a whip.....done properly.  You understand, dont you?

6/29/2010 9:51:55 AM

I am more than willing to speak with anybody.  There is always that bit of discovery, so it only makes sense to do so.
It is through that discovery however, that we may find ourselves compatible...or not. 
I would not take offense if it is not to be and neither should you.

My decision to not pursue is not a judgment of you..it is a confirmation of me.  

6/24/2010 9:44:14 PM
I know that I look at profiles from people who are not near me geographically. Some very far away actually.    Why?     Why Not?
Consider for a second the seemingly impossible odds of simply finding someone you truly connect with. Now add this "lifestyle" and the odds get considerably worse.
If I should be lucky enough to find my one in another state, or even in another country, what then?

I will find a way. I did not spend the first half of my life working hard and sacrificing, only to live the last half alone.
Not if I can help it anyway.


6/22/2010 3:13:48 PM
I am not like other men.  Not the ones I seem to hear about anyway. I am not rude. I believe in manners.  I also believe in romance. Yes romance. I get that some people simply want or need to just be beat.

I have no problem with that but, where is it written that a woman, who happens to be submissive, is somehow less a woman?

I like to send flowers. I like to surprise you with little gifts under your pillow. I just happen to also like tying you up and......
Well, you get the idea!
ANRMom4YngBoy
 
 Age: 18
  New Jersey