I'm a girl who enjoys all-night romps of rough sex and being dominated, and sometimes writes about it. I also love gourmet cooking and travel, yoga and cycling, dancing to electronica and dressing up in fetish or street fashion. I'm looking for a long-term love relationship with a Dom. He should be someone who shares some of my interests and appreciates a high-quality sub like me! My ideas of dating are rather vanilla, I'm told, but I want to find someone I connect with on a deep level in our BDSM dynamic, in sex and in a love relationship. I'm NOT interested in couples, poly or switches. Also only interested in locals, no travel or relocation. Should be between ages of 30-45 but may consider slightly older if you are truly young for your age, otherwise it's not going to work -- I have too much energy for you! You should be physically fit and healthy and minimum 5'8" tall (but I prefer taller.)

I have a BFA in Fine Arts/Communications and work in marketing & advertising.

My other hobbies outside of this lifestyle are: fine dining, ethnic dining, grilling (on a smoker) and going to natural hot springs. My favorite types of music include downtempo, breaks, drum n bass, minimal, dub step, acid house, funky techno and ambient electronica. I have traveled extensively and always want to go more places.

I'd really like to find someone who shares my love of food and has a refined palate. I at least hope my Dom would be open to trying these things as well. I have a hot body that was made for sex and I'm uninhibited and adventurous in the bedroom. I need a mate who has a lot of stamina to keep up with me. I'm very keen on further exploring tantra and the transformational power of sex. So much yet to learn... When sending me a message please write "Ambient" at the top so I'll know you've actually read my profile. Otherwise I will automatically delete your message. Please be honest in your reply - i will sniff out any insincerity. I won't respond to anyone who doesn't have a good profile and photo. And finally, don't message me thinking you're going to get quick sex because you're not, at least not with me. I want to establish a relationship first. Call me an old fashioned slut! Thanks!