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Financially secure single Mistress seeking 24/7 slave (male or female) for permanent position. I have a lovely home, good income, plenty of toys, and am willing to share my life with the right person. I am a caring and compassionate person, but rather stern and demanding.

The ideal person: Someone who has an unfulfilled inner craving to serve others and has a deep desire for a superior person to take total control of their life, all their activities, and their education.


This person cares more for the happiness of others than themselves and fully understands that being a slave is not about them, but is about doing everything they can to fulfill the desires and wishes of their owner.


This desire to serve, to please, and to surrender total control extends all aspects of life their including their privacy, their thoughts, their sexual life and every second of their day.


This person also knows they are not perfect and will not always bring total satisfaction to their owner, but they secretly craves being disciplined for their omissions and failures, knowing they will be punished with affection and never caused permanently harm.


This person is often excited by the thought if humiliation, dreams of being bound, and has a deep fantasy of being pushed to their limits and forced to do things vanilla people just do not do.


In the past, this person had tried, but failed to find fulfillment in normal relationships partly because they were unable to tell their partner what they really wanted.


For the right person I offer a wonderful experience and lifestyle. I am a fun loving person who to the outside world is normal and successful. I am easy to talk to and approach, well read, literate, educated, and thoughtful. Most importantly you will always be safe in my care. I also travel a lot and will expect my slave to travel with me to many fun places.


If your intentions are to do whatever it takes to make my life happy, stress-free, and pleasurable you may be the one for me. Be willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen, be open, honest, and understand that being a slave is NOT about you!


My slave will be provided a monthly personal allowance that may be spent on themselves, but only with my approval. In addition, at the end of each year of service an amount equal to a fair annual wage will be deposited into a trust account for slave’s after life. Work outside the home will not be required.


Health insurance and education expenses will be provided.


Anyone interested in applying must provide a detailed account of their: 1) experience, 2) interest, and 3) limits. Please include pictures that are sufficiently revealing to at least show your body shape and general appearance. Nude pictures, while helpful, are not required to apply.


Mistress Joan

1/5/2006 11:32:44 AM
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Effective now, I will no longer accept invitations to CHAT. My time on here has been very limited lately and I want to evaluate those who have writen me. During the next few weeks the only time I will be on Collarme is to work toward replying to messages and making my final selections. I have chatted with a number of applicants and have very much enjoyed those sessions, but it takes a lot of time and limits the time available to do what needs to be done. Please do not take this personal.

12/28/2005 9:56:26 PM
When to end search???

I am approaching the point where I need to stop accepting applications. Starting with messages received tomorrow (12/30/2005) I will no longer make any effort to reply all messages as I have been doing. After tomorrow if your message does not provide the detailed information outlined in my profile and my journal of 12/22/05 it will be ignored. Period.

Todate, I have received more than 300 messages from over 200 individuals and have made an effort to respond to each and ever one, but that is taking to much time. The time has come to start seriously evaluating the messages I have received so I can select my top five prospects.

In doing that I expect to ask for additional information from some applicants and then select from those who reply.

I am still waiting for replies from many of the individuals who have contacted me. Should I receive proper replies from those slaves, I will still consider them. If not I will make my selection from only those from whom I have received sufficient details and information.

For those who have writen me on or after 12/26/05, I will still reply to your message, but it may take a few days. In addition, each of these appliciants will be given ten days to provide me with any additional information I may request.

I hope to select my top five by late January and have my slave in place by the first of March. This is much longer that I had expected this process to take, but having so many messages that did not provide enough detail is the reason.

12/22/2005 11:15:55 AM


My search for the right slave continues………..

 

After reading messages from a number of applicants, I think I need to explain the criteria I am using to evaluate prospects.

 

1. I look first at the applicants BDSM interest and limits. Non-BDSM interest and personality are very important, but it is my intention to focus on this area after I am satisfied a person has met my BDSM requirements. In the BDSM area, I am looking for certain things, but can not tell you exactly what those are to avoid having people claim that their interest match mine to the tee. However, I can say that not willing to do BI activities is a deal breaker.

 

2. I look second at a person’s experience and ability to perform domestic duties. Cooking skills are a very key point of interest to me. If you don’t know how, are you willing to spend the time to learn? Other than cooking I am interested in a willingness to keep my home and yard spotless, care for my cloths properly, and perform other domestic duties as needed.

 

3. After I am satisfied a person meets my requirements above, I then will look to the general personality of the applicant. I will be asking questions in this area only after you pass my requirements for BDSM.

 

4. At the same time I am looking at an applicant’s general personality, I will also examine their non-BDSM interest.

 

Please know that I consider these last two areas as critical parts of my search, but if you do not meet my requirements in Number 1 above, I see no point in wasting our time learning about these areas. I find that real slave prospects have dreamed so much about BDSM that they have developed the ability to explain this area in much better detail, even if they are very shy about doing so. Therefore, my requiring applicants to go into extensive detail about this area, in writing, also becomes a test of both an applicants ability and willingness to communicate their feelings.  Fuck, suck, cock, and other nasty words are not required in your descriptions, but be assured these words will not turn me off or shock me. Write what you feel is easier for you to write.

 

In future messages, to prove you have read my profile and journals, I request that you address messages to me as - Hi Ms Joan.

 

Mistress Joan
12/7/2005 8:41:47 AM
Please note that I have now responded to everyone who has writen me. If you messanged me and did not get a reply, please let me know and I will resend my message.

I know that sometimes, messages do get lost in cyber space.

If you did not tell me much in your first message, very likely you got a brief reply from me and will need to provide me a greater amount of information about you experience, interest, and limits for me to provide you with a better reply. Keep in mind that the more you tell me, the better I can evaluate you.

Thanks
12/6/2005 6:49:27 AM
A number of males prospects have ask if I have an age restriction. The answer is NO.

While I do hope to find a slave near my own age, my past experience with older slaves tells me not to make a selection based age alone.

What I want more than anything else is williness, loyalty, devotion, and ability.
queencarmen
 
 Age: 24
 New York, New York