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A submissive woman is a woman first with needs and desires then a submissive. A dominant man is a man first with needs and desires then a dominant. A Ds/Ms relationship is still a relationship between two people. It should not be about just sex or just abuse. For it to be healthy, the needs and desires of both need to be met. It cannot only be about the dominant's needs. As in any relationship; honesty, respect and trust are a must. Most importantly, the submissive must be honest about her desires and limits. She must trust her dominant to help her explore those limits and challenge them but also respect those limits. The dominant, most importantly, must understand that his submissive may have limits and respect those, while helping her explore them and challenge them. He must also understand that his submissive needs a firm hand but also needs a tender, caring touch. The dominant should understand that a woman's submission is the greatest gift she can give to him. He should treasure her and her submission and not abuse it. He must understand that she is not his submissive and cannot demand her submission until she chooses to submit to him. About me: I am a single white male living in the northern Kentucky region. I am seeking what I consider a true submissive. She is happiest serving a man, taking care of him and making him happy. She is not a brat and does not willfully disobey. I can have a firm hand when need but also a tender hand. I have no desire to abuse my submissive. I am seeking someone for, as my username says, a lifetime relationship, possibly even leading to marriage. She will be discreet when needed and desire the vanilla aspects that come with a healthy relationship in addition to the bdsm aspects. She will love animals, to travel and new experiences. She must be willing to meet in person after a short time. I am not interested in texting forever. I am open to communicating via video/Zoom before meeting. Note: If you are a Trump supporter, we won't work

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cole33
 
 Age: 40
 Goes, Netherlands