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	all girls need a Daddy in their lives ............ seeking my Tall Daddy who doesn't smoke. no married men. no flakes. no fakes. no wannabes. no cam. no confirmed bachelors. no curmudgeons. please - no hide-my-face mountain man beards. i am seeking a Dominant with a positive attitude in life. one who has not forgotten about passion and humor. where oh where has my Daddy gone to ..... i cant find you .............................. note - i am seeking a PERMANENT relationship .. not just forever fuck buddies ... not a pen pal ... a relationship that grows over time. no, i am NOT a pain slut. no, i don't want to learn to enjoy pain. if you are sadistic then we are NOT a match. i guess this needs more explanation. what is pain to me? fisting is pain. beating me is pain. pulling my hair out is pain. clamps that shut off blood flow is pain. and so on.... note that all of these items also result in some sort of damage to me. i just don't get it. why would i want to let some man damage and hurt me? why would my Daddy want to hurt me? yes, i DO like an erotic spanking or flogging. they don't hurt. once something moves over into pain then i just want everything to stop. i cannot make any connection between pain/damage and pleasure. i understand a discipline spanking. but that is discipline and has nothing to do with pleasure. i can grit my teeth and bear it. unless you are going to beat me to the point where i cannot sit down for two months. at that point, there is no more relationship. i won't stick around for someone i cannot trust. a deion of me? most men consider me pretty. but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. i sure don't see it when i look in the mirror. but who am i to tell them they are wrong? not me.... what i see is someone who is overweight. who am i? sometimes i have a quick wit. sometimes i can't remember why i walked into the dang room. i am educated. i have hobbies. i have one really zany dog (my attention whore). i love variety and laughter and FUN. evening walks and working out. but i would say my #1 hobby is sex.... adore it. what am i looking for? a mix of a Daddy Dom/Master, old fashioned household where i get to be naked Mrs Cleaver in pigtails. for all of those who ask this question .. here is the answer ... "no, i didn't just decide to become submissive. no, this isn't a choice. no, i am not timid - i am submissive. this is who i have been ALL my life. why do i think i am submissive? because ... i am ... " hope that clears up all the confusion!!! now be honest, do you drool or swallow?

2/22/2013 12:00:31 PM

i don't post a picture of myself on my profile because i am discreet. my private desires are just that. private. i don't intend for my neighbors, family, co-workers, etc to know anything about my private life.

i ask for a picture of the guy to be sent to me by email. i totally understand not posting on your profile.

email is email ... send me one in the email on here!

i just had a guy call me a bitch because i asked him for a picture and to send it to me in the email on here. all i want to see is a picture of the man's smile ... that's all.

how about that? what do you think the odds are that he's in a relationship?

PS: aren't i glad that he's not my Daddy. i don't need someone with anger management issues.

4/28/2012 2:53:13 PM

we were going to meet. we were sooo excited about meeting. after all this time of searching, i thought i might have finally found my One.

but life kept getting in the way for him.

finally the day that we were going to meet, he went to the hospital that morning for some tests. we were going to meet at 1:00 for coffee.

he called, could i wait a couple of hours? they want to do a biopsy. of course, i can wait.

then he called again, they were keeping him overnight, the news was not good.

we texted and emailed like crazy because he didnt want his family to over hear our conversations. they knew about me ... but .. he was so cheerful. finally he said, "the sleep medication is taking effect. i will call you tomorrow, darlin"

i didn't hear from him again. i figured they had rushed him into surgery and he was recovering. but it didnt seem right that he didnt contact me at all. so, i screwed up my courage and called ... it had been 2 weeks...

his son answered the phone. said his father had surgery and then died the next day. who was i? how did i know his father?

i could only mumble that we were supposed to meet that day, i am so sorry and to hang up..... i don't know if i am done crying yet.

he really did go 'POOF' on me .... and i will never know if he was my One.

3/21/2012 11:20:52 PM

I am not a person who likes a man to shave his body hair. I am old enough to remember when men were proud of their chest hair .. and yes, gasp .. their pubic hair, too!

I think those who shave below the belt look like denuded rats.