Caveat Emptor!  (even if the price is "free")

OK, well, let's put it this way.  If you are browsing this site,

interested in male Doms in the Seattle and Puget Sound area,

I have some anecdotal information concerning one particular

individual.  Ask me, cause me to believe you're genuine, and

I'll fill you in.

"The Method of Science, the Aim of Religion".

I love this phrase.  It neatly summarizes my approach to life.

Oy oy oy, men.  Just tried to meet up with a fellow from this site.

Foolish me: as always, it was all my extension and effort, always

hoping the other party will meet me (literally, in this case!).

But no, I just spent money and time to show up at a meeting place,

sit and wait for over an hour, then return home.  Oh well, it was a

lovely trip on a beautiful day, at least.

The sad part is, this isn't the first time.

"Fool me once, shame on you.  Fool me twice, shame on me."

But what about "fool me sixteen thousand and five times"?

The fact is, I feel no shame.  I am not ashamed to keep wearing my heart

on my sleeve, and to keep casting pearls before swine.  I have not

found any better way to meet the 1% of people who are worthy, than by

taking the risk and slogging through the other 99% who are not.

That's my way, and I'm proud of it.

I'm not here to "name and shame".  (Yet...)  But I hope the fellow I'm talking

about will read this, and will get the guts to communicate directly with

me: you know who you are.  Because I'm not done talking with you;

I had some responses to things you said.  I'd write all about it here,

but I'll give you the chance to contact me first.  Maybe we both have some

emotions to let simmer down.  You claim to have long experience in the

Lifestyle, so no doubt you realize that word-of-mouth reputation is

really important; I won't start prematurely dissing on yours, until you've

had a chance to speak with me directly and come to a peaceable

understanding.

As for anyone else who is interested to hook up with me, please know this:

I am serious, I really show up if I say that I will, and I expect the same.

I have a submissive side, true; but that doesn't mean that I can't recognize

weak and cowardly behaviour, unbecoming of one who wishes to be

called a "man".  Calling yourself Dom doesn't make it so (though it's

a reasonable start).  True Dominants are reliable and pretty unflappable.

Popular meme these days: "repeating the same behaviour

and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity".

Actually, it simply demonstrates persistence and patience.  The

insanity only comes in when those qualities are misplaced:

i.e., the goal is either completely unattainable and obviously so,

or it is not worthy of the effort expended to attain it.  But how can

one tell whether the goal is attainable and worthy, or not?

Answer: you can't!  Not until it is attained.  But if she's not a

witch, then she drowns!  I.e., the time you need the information,

is the time when you won't get it.  Once you get there, the blinders

are taken off and you can see, oh yes, of course, I had to follow

that path, it was all in order to get Here.