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What Being My Woman Will Look Like
I am loving, warm, and nurturing while also being a bit of a sadist. It will be my job to protect you, to provide for you, and to be a loving authority figure for you. I will consult you, but the big decisions will be mine, and I'll take full responsibility for them. Your job will be to provide me your honest advice and counsel and then support me 100%.
One of your most important responsibilities would be shopping for and preparing healthy and delicious food for the family and for small dinner parties, small events, etc. This is because time spent together at meals is an important bonding experience, and because the food we eat does more than anything else to determine our health.
At first, you would continue your job or career. If you find it fulfilling or rewarding, you're welcome to keep it. Especially if you're a teacher and can travel during summers. But if your job is just a way to make rent, you'd eventually quit to work in my home and travel with me.
You would also be my secretary, my executive assistant, and my girl Friday in our home office. Your duties will include rubbing my shoulders and blowing me under my desk, but you'll also do valuable work at your own desk, from scanning documents and organizing files to maybe even writing and editing or graphic design or helping me research and analyze investments.
Sex is an important part of keeping a relationship healthy. Some of the things I like during sex are pulling your hair, king you, slapping you, tossing you around the bed and putting your body where I want it, holding you down, tying you up, calling you names, and fucking your mouth, pussy and ass. You'll beg me for permission to orgasm ... and I'll often but not always say 'yes.' I'm also a fan of gentle, vanilla sex right after I've really warmed your ass with a belt. And sometimes, just to keep you on your toes, we'll just have gentle vanilla sex.
Before any of that happens we'll discuss our sexual wants and needs, as well as our hard limits, and negotiate a clear understanding of our mutual boundaries. I need to know and trust someone well before getting naked; we'll take our time getting to know each other. My hard limits include age play, scat or diapers, blood, leaving permanent marks, anything with animals, and anything that's illegal. I'm not 420-friendly.
Who I Am
I'm a 50-year-old dominant divorced single dad living in Los Angeles. I lead an outwardly-normal middle-class lifestyle. I will not relocate, but I can relocate you.
I'm 5'11" (180 cm) and somewhat overweight. I've lost 40 pounds following a ketogenic diet and lifting weights and playing outdoors, and it's important to me to keep doing that. You don't have to be in spectacular shape, but I do want you to live a healthy and active lifestyle with me.
I've done a lot of therapy to get to the point where I can talk openly and honestly about my emotions and set and enforce clear boundaries. You should be able to talk about your shit too.
I'm partly retired, and my work and investment management can be done from anywhere. I love to travel, and hope to do much more of that in the future during summer vacations and school breaks, and even more after my son is 18. If you don't have a passport, you'll get one. I love to camp and hike, so cooking outdoors and peeing in the woods are in your future.
I own a small boat, and enjoy excursions to the Channel Islands, or to Catalina or just out to enjoy the dolphins and the sunset. I would also love someday to take a bigger boat on a trip around the world. I hope you like the ocean, because you're coming along. At a minimum you'll shop for and prepare our meals, and if you have the aptitude and desire, you'll be my first mate.
I volunteer, mentor others, and no bullshit try to make the world a better place.
Who You Are
I'm looking for a long-term (hopefully life-long) relationship with a woman who is submissive, warm, loving, and beautiful.
I have one son, elementary school age, with me 50%. I'm undecided but open to having further kids of my own, and it's great if you have your own kids. It's fine if you don't want to have kids too, but you have to be great with the one I've already got. Things would look pretty normal while he's around. This isn't a "sleep in a cage" situation.
You've got to be hella smart and well-read. If I don't respect what you have to say, if I don't value your opinion, we won't work. If English is your first language, you must be able to write and communicate well. I welcome non-native speakers too; even if your English isn't perfect it's probably better than my ish or my French.
The age range I prefer is mid 30's to late 40's, but I'm open to anyone from mid 20s to 60. A woman under 30, however, would have to be exceptionally mature and emotionally healthy. Likewise a woman older than me should be exceedingly youthful, fit, and active.
Next Steps
You're a good girl for reading this far. I absolutely want to talk to you.
As a man, it's my job to pursue you. Yet I can't do that if I don't know you exist.
Send me a message and say "Hello." Mention an elephant so I know you actually read this. If you meet some but not all of my requirements ... it's not your job to decide if I want you. Write anyway.
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