Amazing that a person who is cheating on his spouse would state that an "honest illegal alien" is an oxymoron. That's the pot calling the kettle black.

I require a dominant man. Honesty and integrity are core character traits of a true dominant. Cheaters simply do not qualify. In addition, the cheaters on this site are a dime a dozen. Dominant means you are set apart or above the rest. This inherently cancels out the average, mediocure, run of the mill or translation: multitude of cheating non-doms.

So let's see, "dishonest" illegal aliens are here to work, feed their families, make a better life for themselves. Dishonest cheating spouses deceive, betray and damage their life partner's emotional/psychological well being. They compromise the stability of their families. They damage children along the way.

I seek a dominant man at least as smart as I am. Your reasoning abilities appear to be compromised as well.

My recommendations for you:

Seek marital counseling.

Stay off the computer as all HNGs should.

Spend your spare time volunteering for a women's shelter/organization, Amnesty International or other humanitarian organization.

Visit a less fortunate country such as Mexico, Africa or Asian to gain compassion for others.

My sincere sympathies to your wife, life partner and probably your children.