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how can you admire someone youve not talked to and gotten to know? my profile is written so that trolls keep going and only the ones that understand that the lifestyle is not about sex |
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i removed my pictures because i agree that some of us have a lot to lose if our work or schools discovered we are a part of this beautiful lifestyle. |
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Ask a stupid question get a stupid answer. Plain and simple. Don't like it then dont bother sending me stupid lines like
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I love the idea of possessing every inch of your submissive self. You would be micromanaged by me: are you aware of what that entails?"
Not even bothering to read my profile to know I have been in the lifestyle for nearly 17 years....plus seriously you are going to ask me if I know what that entails? Like I said ask a stupid question get a stupid answer
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its been three weeks tomorrow since you passed away and I miss you so very much. its been a struggle to get through every day since you passed.
Te quiero momi |
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While I do enjoy meeting and making new friends please understand that I just buried my mom yesterday so if I look at your email and dont reply please understand |
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it amazes me that so many do not bother to read a profile before sending a one line sentence of lets text or lets meet. Really? |
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Its been a long time since I wrote on here. I am now living in Texas. I am a slave but that does not mean I take orders from anyone unless I wish to.
Still looking to make friends
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Life quickly changes when you loose the trust you had with a dominant. I never thought I would ever face the day where I lost the trust and respect for someone I choose to submit to. Your mind is racing a million miles an hour, trying to find rhyme or reason for what has transpired and you know deep in your heart that while he said he was sorry, that it won't change. He wont change. |
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I have made a new friend. Surprisingly, I am intrigued with Him. He has a good heart and smart. He's not intimidated by my intelligence and He makes sure I am taking care of myself since I put family and friends before myself.
seaMist |
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Few dominants understand the implications of mental bondage. Being submissive/slave or Dominant isnt simply fulfilling by itself. It must find its mate that is opposite of them but alike in areas that make each compatible with one another. The mental aspect of BDSM is something many are afraid of but it is something I crave. It beyond a simple need or want but a craving that needs to be fulfilled. |
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My mom was diagnosis with an inoperable cancer today. I will not be on for a while.
sea |
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Seriously, please understand I am not looking for anything but friendship. |
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I have been busy with school. I will have a double bachelors in December and will continue on to my Masters in Forensic Psychology. |
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Been a while since I have been here... seeking intelligent conversation that involves living the lifestyle not playing at it... I am trained as a red silk kajira real life and really do not like talking to anyone that cannot tell the difference between reality and fantasy. Yes, you can take the concepts of Gor and BDSM and live them.... Respect is a two way street... Master Yourself before contacting me
seaMist
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Once again I cannot stress enough that I am only seeking friends. I have more than enough on my plate then I can possibly handle at the moment. With that said I am not seeking anything more than like minded individuals that understand the dynamics of the lifestyle and see it as such...... Happy Hunting to you all
seaMist |
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Wondering if there are others out there that see this as a lifestyle? That do not see it as a "game"? and understands that yes sex is a part of it but that the lifestyle is not about sex?
seaMist |
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I have a submissive friend that is married to her Master.... her fantasy is to be with another woman, but He is insecure when it comes to her living out that fantasy.... Any ideas on how to reassure Him that she'd not leave him for a woman? |
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My life is complicated at the moment. I am not looking for anything other than friendship at the moment. Please respect that. No You are not the exception, You are not the One.... At this point in time I have what I need and I need what I have. Friendships are always welcomed but remember that respect is a two way street.
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I went to a munch this weekend and had the time of my life. |
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Long ago I was asked by Master Shadow to describe myself with one word and why...I choose "sea"
The sea can be tranquil and embrace you within its depths.
Yet it can entice you and intrigue you beyond your wildest dreams.
The sea is mysterious to those that are a stranger to it.
Yet open and inviting to the ones that love it.
The sea is full of life and energy as it gives and takes.
Is revitalizing and exciting to be surrounded by the sea.
As well as intoxicating and stimulating.
Written by seaMi§†
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I found a new way to weed through..... ask them if they can stimulate the mind without sexual content.... Listen people I have been in this lifestyle for 12 years. I have been trained by the best. Stimulate the mind means just that.... if You dont understand it please dont waste my time or Yours... For so many stimulation means sexual, but if You cannot grab my attention with intelligent conversation that does not include sexuality in it then I really do not want to talk to You. I am just like any other slave in the aspect that sexuality does have a role in Master/slave content but first You have to achieve what very few can... Intelligent conversations. When I was 30 I met a Dominant that made me think, made me look into who I was, what I wanted, what I needed... He was 19 and to this day, I will compare You with Him because at 19 He knew more and understood the mental aspect. Sexually He could and can turn my world upside down even now. Thank You, Master Shadow for putting the bar at a level where few can truly achieve to understand the mind of a slave..
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Most true happiness comes from one's inner life, from the disposition of the mind and soul. Admittedly, a good inner life is difficult to achieve, especially in these trying times. It takes reflection and contemplation and self-discipline. |
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Do You think because You use lifestyle terminology that it makes You Dominant? Get real! First and foremost respect is a Must. I will be respectful ONLY if You can act accordingly. If You cant then prepare to meet the Dominant side of this girl. I have been in this lifestyle much too long to let some control freak or some pussy whipped male disrespect me as a person. I am slave but I am NOT your slave and You have no rights. Want me to show You respect then earn it!
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What is good for one may not be good or even right for another. Do NOT compare yourself to another submissive. The key is finding a Dominant in which you can be yourself and let go without worrying about doing something you dont like. Each of us are different for a reason. Even in vanilla relationships if we were all cut from the same fabric we would be boring.
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I enjoy reading profiles. If I have clicked on yours and havent said hi, sorry. Time is often cut short by real life and i am unable to send a note of hello each time.
sea |
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There is no feeling in the world like being Owned by One that understands the responsibility of owning a slave, realizes its more than a sexual game and fulfills the needs of a slave as well as the needs of their Own.
sea
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Once again for the Morons that cannot get it through their heads. I am seeking friendships ONLY. Nothing More.
I enjoy intelligent conversations with both Dominants and submissive/slaves but beware I will not respond kindly if You have the " I am Dom, hear Me Roar" attitude when you contact me.
Friendships Only
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I seek friendships, I seek intelligent conversations with individuals that understand that this is not simply a "kink" but a lifestyle that to some of us, taken very seriously. I will not endulge you with fantasies. I will NOT submit to You because You feel You are the One... Believe me You are NOT....
Friendship Only.... while I realize most will ignore this yet again I keep reiterating it for those that actually read.
seaMi§† |
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I've been told. For some I may be ugly and others the most beautiful woman they have met. Does it matter to me what others would think of me in this way? Beauty for me surpasses the obvious... Beauty for me is within that matters most. A heart does not have to be Dominant to be beautiful or submissive to be engrossing. Beauty is something that cannot be bought or sold.... it must come from within a person. I have seen a beautiful women with and ugly heart and I have seen a beautiful heart make the most beautiful woman....
seaMist
Think I need to stop writing in the middle of the night lol.... |
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I tend to sit back and watch. One learns more from listening then talking. If Y/you contact me without reading my profile and/or think to ignore what I have written then dont bitch when I tell Y/you what bridge to jump off of
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This is a lifestyle for me. I was trained as a kajira real life. I was a BDSM slave prior to be trained as a kajira. I know my place however, that does not give You the right to dictate to me. I am respectful until You prove You cannot be trusted to be mature and most importantly in charge of Yourself. I am blunt and to the point. I detest liars, drama queens and kings and players. I enjoy intellectual conversations that intrigue the mind......
Safe Paths and Good luck in Y/your search for the O/one
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Nothing aggrevates me more than someone claiming to be Dominant, sending me a message offering a relationship and never reading my damn profile. It states very clearly twice in fact I am only seeking friends. Communication is essential in this lifestyle which includes reading people......
seaMist |
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A very good Dominant Friend of mind once wrote
"There is a very thin line between absolute pain and total pleasure
between torture and love, caring for and using, pleasing and teasing
fear and respect."
If you dont understand its meaning dont bother messaging me. |
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I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
— Marilyn Monroe
This is one of my favorite quotes. It applies to me. I would never submit to anyone that cannot handle the good with the bad as we know life isnt a bowl of cherries
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One of my pet peeves is spelling. I am not talking about typos. We all make those, however, spelling is important. Take for instance the words dominate and dominant. If you can not distinguish between the two then I am probably not going to talk to you. I love good conversations about the lifestyle.
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It bares repeating... I am only here for friends, seeking like minded individuals. More than that I cannot give.
sea |
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wow..... some people are amazing... I had this male asking me personal questions like where I worked when I responded with....
This line of questioning is beyond what I feel is appropriate for someone I do not know. I would never tell someone I just met via online where I work, who I know or anything else that is personal.
I wish you well
seaMist
He called me an idiot and blocked me LMAO
now if I was an idiot I would have answered your questions, instead of sending you a polite letter explaining why I wouldnt answer them.....
Thanks for the laugh
If you want to know who, send me a message.
Remember no matter if you are sub or slave your safety is your responsibility.
sea
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The brain is the biggest sexual organ- Once You have learned how to intrigue the mind, the rest comes naturally.
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Please all I can give anyone is friendship. Do not contact me asking for more, thinking You are the One...
I have nothing left to give. |
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Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore. |
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You can have anything you want if you will give up the belief that you can't have it.” |
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Can You believe? Will You believe? |
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You can be GQ or Drop dead gorgeous and be an ass with a black heart or you can be plane jane and have the most beautiful soul in the world. I rather surround myself with beautiful souls then jerks that look good.
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Its the heart afraid of breaking that never learns to dance. It is the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance. It is the one who won't be taken who cannot seem to give. And the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live. Bette Midler.
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Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away |
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For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, It might have been |
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Can You stimulate my mind? Can You make me think? Can You cause me to step back and say wow.... If You can drop me a line....
seaMist |
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For those that need to understand what these words mean.... . honesty implies a refusal to lie, steal, or deceive in any way. honor suggests an active or anxious regard for the standards of one's profession, calling, or position. integrity implies trustworthiness and incorruptibility to a degree that one is incapable of being false to a trust, responsibility, or pledge.
If Y/you cannot abide by these do not contact me under any circumstances. |
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If You cannot intrigue the mind then it wont matter what You look like, what Your IQ is, how well You might be endowed etc.... I crave the mental aspect of it as well
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Life is a highway..... we live and we learn. Sadly at times we are taken by those that we are closest to and do not realize until almost too late or too late that they mean us harm emotionally or physically. It's taking what you have endured and learning from your mistakes that are important. |
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