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| Gentleman Dom /ˈjen(t)lmən däm/ (noun) a chivalrous, courteous, or honorable man whose nature is to be controlling and commanding without being abusive or degrading.
I have been described as a Gentleman Dom. As such, I respect the submissives with which I interact, demonstrated by clear and concise communications and adhering to the boundaries they set. It should be noted that I am not a sadist, and use punishment only as a training tool of last resort (unless my sub enjoys it in which case it is a reward). I am never abusive, and only rough when it is mutually agreed to in advance. Put another way, I offer a firm hand covered in a velvet glove.
What makes me tick? Exploring ideas with other thoughtful individuals, exploring places through travel, exploring sensuality through flirting, teasing and intimacy, and exploring my submissive soft limits.
What do I enjoy in my day to day? A warm shower in the morning, work or play that requires me to learn something new or solve a problem, time with family and friends, building or fixing things with my hands.
What do I need from you? Open and frank communications, understanding, respect for limits and boundaries, desire to achieve a state of sensuality and eroticism.
My goal is to create a safe space where you and I are comfortable expressing our weaknesses, wants and desires. An oasis of sorts where we leave the pressures and expectations of the outside world at the door and can engage in conversations and activities that allow us to better understand one another.
I welcome the opportunity to engage in meaningful conversation so long as we are proceeding towards meeting in person. I am not interested in online-only or being penpals.
Mr. R a.k.a. Scott
Disclaimer: If you are looking for rough language, humiliation or degradation from the first message, or a Dom who tries to humiliate, degrade, or exert control immediately, I am not for you. On the other hand, if you want someone who is confident, strong and skilled at taking command, then we should meet.
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