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read my profile before you have a pm on Me.
SEEKING for a new. in this lifestyle...and not more expirienced.. Coz im a new too!!
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For those of you who are likely to focus on these overt power exchange activities, note that I am seeking a female-led relationship that is constant, not based on whether or not you are aroused. I'm not satisfied with submissiveness built on controlling your cock, nor am I interested in a relationship sustained by the sexual thrill you get from my personality. Chemistry is critical, but it's far from the only thing I seek. And to further clarify, no, I'm not seeking a "yes man" (doormat, pussy, whatever), but a strong male who is chivalrous and treats me as his Queen. The man gets a vote, but the woman gets a vote and a half. Sometimes, the relationship may feel and seem vanilla, but there will always be the tiny undercurrent that I have 51% of the power, and we like it this way.
I recently read about the differing leadership characteristics of "hard" and "soft" power, and mine is definitely on the soft side. That isn't to say I'm not firmly in control; simply put, I believe a sub should desire to serve me without needing to be beaten or punished in order to elicit the behaviour I want. I tend to suggest and lead rather than command, so you need to pay attention. If you can't "see" my dominance, that's more about you than me.
It's critically important that a sub be able to read, understand and anticipate a Domme, not simply be willing and open to her. Willing to do whatever I say is NOT the same as doing what I want before I have to tell you. This isn't a sexual thing to me, but a relationship dynamic.
I'm professional, loyal, intelligent, picky, loving, and caring. Quick witted and expect the same!
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