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| A Dominant more into D/s than S&M who enjoys submissive women. Women who are not afraid to be women, confident, intelligent and who enjoy dressing.. for themselves and their man. Short skirts, stockings & heels are high My list :)
In submitting... in giving me power over you, you're giving me permission to do some of those darker things (within, it is assumed, some context or set of boundaries) you may have simmering just below the surface. In accepting that power (and the responsibility that comes with) I am, in affect, giving you permission to do like wise.
You can experience a darker side, a side in which you would do things that you normally wouldn't. Whether it be a passionate kiss in public, allowing me to fondle you in public, or exploring the thrill of being bound or, perhaps, being with another woman because you were 'commanded' to do so. Perhaps you wouldn't, on your own, pursue doing some of these things, but when directed by one who has power over you, you can give in to a thrill of excitement and desire that is there beneath the surface just waiting for release.
You should feel sexy and wanted and controlled. You should be proud that the man you're with is proud of you, and wants to show you off. And showing you off can be done in very.. skimpy? slutty? revealing!... clothing, when going to the right place, but it can also be done in more conservative clothing. A skirt can short enough that you flash me when you sit, or long enough where you don't have to 'worry' about such things so much. At either length it can be sexy. The same is true with a top, you can show an 'acceptable' amount of cleavage or 'too much'. Either way you are being proudly displayed.
That said, dressing well and to please someone isn't just for going out. Putting on some nice lingerie is a wonderful way of letting someone know that you want them, that they are desired. A woman should express her feelings for her man, to touch, hold and caress.
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