Just because I choose not to call you, after you give me your phone number, after only knowing me for a week through e-mail only, doesn't mean I'm "not seriously looking". It doesn't mean I'm "not submissive". It doesn't mean I'm "an idiot". AND it certainly doesn't mean I'm a "lying whore".

Now afterall all those sweet and endearing words said to me, I'm expected to be nice and forget it was even said????? ~shakes my head~ No. That type of behavior shows me your character. I choose not to interact with such inane, and puerile people.

My spirit burns. Some men don't like it or become scared. No matter. They would never be able to hold it. Its fierce pulsing and thrashing would frighten them. Its fire would burn them. Its light would blind them.  I am one for the bold and courageous.

Now I'm sure you are the best dominant in the world. I'm sure you've had a string of submissives who've marveled at the degree of "control" you exert over every living thing that passes within a mile of you. I'm sure your rubber ducky dare not bob in the bathtub around you. I'm sure your fuzzy pink bunny
slippers dare not have their ears akimbo. Yet, I feel compelled to write this.
Am I submissive? Am I my foot? Am I my leg? I am more than the some of my parts. Being submissive is a part of me. Not all of me.
Should I cower before your mighty capped name? Should I not form thoughts and opinions? OMG! This submissive has thoughts! Opinions! She speaks her mind! Quick! Someone get an old priest and a young priest! May the power of Christ compel you! May the power of Christ compel you!
I know I come across as harsh. (Ok, harsh is being nice but how self deprecating do you expect me to be?) Yet, you have to consider how much can one person tolerate. Sure, I'm not the only one who has been jerked around and I'm not the only one sick of it. But I am not going to cheapen myself nor my submission by offering it to anyone. Either you are willing to take the time on me or you are not. That is a choice you have to make.
We have to get to know one another. Do I submit to everyone? No. I am submissive in nature. Not weak. Do not confuse the two.  I give general respect to everyone until given a reason not to do so. You will have to earn my respect as a dominant just as I will have to earn yours as a submissive.
Some people have an aura of dominance some do not. It's not something you can buy, earn, or learn. It just is. I know it when I encounter it. It's a look, a stance, a tone. It could be some small detail but it's there.
If you write to me; I will reply. I will be nice if you are nice. If you are rude to me; I will be rude.
Do not expect me to call you Sir, Master, Lord, or whatever.
Do not expect me to hand out my picture like it's candy on Halloween night.
Do not insult my intelligence. I may not be the brightest star in the sky but I'm not the dullest either.

Let me save some time for you and for me.

If you lack the means to titillate my mind; I'm not likely to be interested in you. If you're struggling to decide how best to go about said mental titillation, you're probably incapable of it. If proper nouns avoid your sentences. (i.e. Master says hello to girl. Or...Sir wonders how girl is.) If you wear bunny slippers because it makes you feel powerful to shove your feet up a rabbit's ass. Plus it will show the other bunnies your dominance.

I could go on but I think that stresses my point. Have a good day.