Who am I? I am married and have been for many years however my wife is very vanilla in the bedroom and does not share my desires and tastes. I am self-employed and I am very flexible daytime's; but due to family not so free with late evenings and night times, hosting is out of the question however will be happy to travel to you or rent/hire private room to suite your times; or if you are in the same position as me.

I am not ageist, nor am I worried and your size, the only thing I ask of you is that your cleanliness matches mine, I am a hairy guy but I am shaven clean down below but do not mind if you are billiard table smooth or have 60’s bush!

What am I looking for? Well that’s down to you as well as me as me, (I believe between two people it’s a two way street, where each of us is considerate of the others wishes) my tastes are wide and varied and have changed over the years. Although I am naturally dominant in Role Play I would like to try at being the sub if you were a switch and we could both experience each other’s roles to broaden both our horizons.

Have I done this before? Short answer yes I had a girlfriend who loved it many years ago, and have had the odd experience during the last year or so but looking for regular, not one off.< style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> The way forwards for me is bondage, king, restricted female orgasm, blindfold and anything that turns you on. I spent my early years as a butcher and know my way around knots and rope, so if you love to be restricted in any way, I can help. Also had a few threesomes, (more than three sessions ‘different partners’ less than six) they were all stress free and great fun, I am an very easy going and get on with well with new acquaintances.

What turns me on? All aspects of the female body, her back, under the arms, neck feet, holding her down firmly, spreading her legs. Role play, your fetishes will become mine, be they tender, stroking, firm, soft, hard or ouch that frigging hurt. I must confess a deep and abiding love of the female bottom, bum, ass, call it what you will, big or small that is my big weakness.

The way forwards? Put it this way, if you like what you read and see from my profile, drop me a message and tell me what YOU are looking for, not what you think I might want to hear.< style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> After a little time messaging and getting to know each other a meet in a café or wherever you suggest so that we can check each other out.

If I come over as too soft and loving, yes I have that side of me, 90% of people do but… I can be frigging hard on you if that’s what you want and will take no prisoners. That said when playing if you’re no means NO; then it’s most definitely a NO as far as I am concerned.

By the way reference meeting up, if I say I will then I most defiantly will, I am not on here to waste my time of yours, there are too many ‘key board warriors’ who talk big but when it comes to it, chicken out.