I guess we can start off with the looks department. Most girls say that "Looks don't matter" and I think it's because they don't want to seem shallow but I will be the first to admit that yes, looks DO matter, at least to me. A guy doesn't have to be the perfect underwear model to get my attention but I do need to be attracted to the person. I'm usually drawn to clean cut guys. Guys who take time to get ready to go out, who take care of themselves. Taller guys are typically what I go for. I like guys who take care of their figure as well. Working out is important to me (now) and it should be important to them. The "perfect" mate for me should have a good head on his shoulders, as well as have his life together or at least working towards getting to together. I want someone I can have fun with as well as someone that if need be, I can have a serious conversation with and for them to actually give a shit and not just pretend because they think they have too. Someone who will take the time at the end of the day to ask me how it was, and truly be interested in what I have to say even if it just was only shopping with a girlfriend :) I'm past the whole drama party scene however it is nice to go out once in awhile. I never expect to find the "perfect" mate however I do know what I bring to the table and I know what I deserve and I won't settle for much less that perfect in my eyes