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sam5935

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Hello, Sexually Dominant, kinky, highly educated male seeking an independent, strong, witty, goals-oriented woman. I am 6'2", fit, have a graduate degree, and am working on a PhD. I am seeking a kinky, sexually submissive woman for an otherwise egalitarian relationship. This could be an ongoing casual thing, but I would prefer a genuine relationship. Please note: The person I'm with does not ALWAYS have to be sexually submissive - variety is good. However, being sexually Dominant is part of my personality and I do need outlet for that at least part of the time.

I work in healthcare and academia so comfort and safety are a TOP priority for me. I am not looking for someone that wants to truly be hurt or degraded (Though someone that enjoys playing with pain/pleasure dynamics is MOST welcome). I am not interested in re-creating any prior trauma. Rather, I am looking for a great relationship with someone that happens to be trustworthy, yet kinky and insatiable. I enjoy verbal domination, restraints, spanking, role-play/dress up, giving sexy assignments, and most other forms of kink. Watching/hearing/feeling my partner have an orgasm (and another, and another....) is one of my favorite things and you will be well rewarded for the "work" I make you do.....

Face pic and answers to any questions available upon request. As well, please WRITE SOMETHING when you approach me. This dynamic is sensitive and requires very good communication. If you're shy or hesitant, that's fine - just say so! I will guide you in assessing what you're looking for and will be very gentle in getting to know you. However, multiple one line responses indicate to me that you are ambivalent or are unable to communicate your needs and wants to me - which is paramount as I will only enjoy this if I'm also making you feel very, very good.

Also, please note that I am typically not the Dominant type that will totally overpower you from the first sentence or the first meeting. Don't get me wrong - once trust is establish, I can be VERY aggressive, am very strict (when we're in this mode, NOT outside of it), and will thoroughly and completely dominate you when we're engaged in this style of play. However, I have to know that you will keep yourself safe with good limits and boundaries for this to start to blossom. I can only participate in this type of behavior when I know that you are deriving great pleasure from this. As well, I also like to mix some gentleness in with things. Nothing enhances the sting of an "almost too much" slap to the ass like this sensation being interspersed with soft, probing fingers and words of encouragement whispered in your ear.....
playtimefun2012
 
 Age: 23
 London, United Kingdom