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I am well-rounded, experienced, and accomplished, both as a dominant and with respect to life in general. Though I certainly have an avid appreciation for spontaneity, I approach most of life's pursuits with a great deal of forethought and consideration and responsibility and integrity are non-negotiable fundamental principles at the foundation of all I do. I am seeking a female submissive partner who is reconciled with her submissive nature. She fully accepts the inherent deference of her station while understanding and appreciating that the Dominant and submissive are equally-essential entities of the same BDSM whole without contradiction. The partner I seek is one who embraces all aspects of her submission, from the intellectual and emotional to the physical and sexual. She accepts the integrity of her submission regardless of context and understands that regardless of form or manner, it represents the same inherent submission without distinction. Given the nature of Dominance and submission, trust and integrity are non-negotiable essential prerequisites. The pursuit of perfect security through absolute vulnerability, achieving complete self-actualization by ceding one's will, and sharing unprecedented intimacy through unchallenged deference requires the most deliberate, circumspect, and responsible kind of commitment. I appreciate the difficulties many women unfortunately face here and on other similar venues by the myriad uncouth poseurs lacking any social skills who presume by identifying themselves as "Dominant" believe they are self-entitled to inundate the Inboxes of anyone who has chosen to identify herself as "submissive" in the crudest, most ignorant, and often spiteful ways; and I empathize with the many annoyed and frustrated who have been so imposed upon. That such worthless misfits should be retroactively aborted notwithstanding, and as irritating as their constant inflow must be, I am not one of the perpetrators and do not expect to be treated as if I might be, regardless of anyone's past experiences. If I choose to send a brief message, it is because I have found someone, or something about that someone to be of interest; and I expect the same kind of polite response anyone may expect in any mature social environment, be it positive, negative, or of no interest whatsoever. I treat others with the same polite consideration with which I would like to be treated and expect nothing less from anyone else. If past experiences have been so bad as to leave one permanently jaded, the appropriate remedy is to no longer participate. I welcome discussion with those who appreciate and embrace a similar perspective and vision.
sillygirl4u
 
 Age: 21
  Minnesota