Some dommes describe them self as 'harsh but fair', I have no interest in fairness, you do not have to behave badly when you want to be punished, and I don't have to make up some imaginary mistake. I will look you in the eye, your heart will skip because you know the look and off we go. You will be free to decline any time you want, or put some restrictions on what happens, there will be no fallout (other then my mild disappointment) I do understand that you might not be in the mood for what I have in mind. In that sense I am not dominant at all.

One aspect of bdsm I am into is predicament bondage.
Here is one of my favourite most simple positions.
In my attic room i have a thick chain that is attached to a beam in the roof-space and a hook in the floor. A smaller chain is fixed round the victim's balls and attached to the big chain at around mid thigh height. This means you can't kneel and can't stand normally either - there are a number of positions he can adopt but none of them comfortable. I just need to sit back and watch.

The room gets deliciously hot in the sun, so i can taunt the captive with ice cold water. Sometimes, I like to be cruel, using a crop on your body occasionally, sometimes I am gentle and loving, stroking your hair, kissing you sensually, I have even cried at a captive's suffering.

Well I have lots of other scenarios I like to enact, and lots that I would like to try. The general theme is slow torment rather than a quick beating. If that is for you let me know some more about yourself.

thanks for reading

Nat