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Hetero Male Dominant, 54,  Cresco, Pennsylvania
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Master searching for masocistic slaves
I have been a dom for 20yrs and an owner
I would like to build a poly house
I am looking for a live in 24/7 position
sex is but a part of it but not all of it
you will be trained to serve in a way that brings pride to your owner(Me)
I realize that this will not happen overnight its more of a long term goal












 Dominant Male



 6' 0"

 225 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Sub/Sub Couples



A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops (Beginner)

 Fine Dining

 Renaissance Faires



 Rollerblading (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)


 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)


 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 You wearing my collar

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 G-spot Service

 Being Massaged

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play


 Hair Pulling


 Placing you on a leash

 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Control

 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage


 Public Play

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you

 You wearing stockings



 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 TV Sports

 Body Art









 Heavy Metal Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music


 Ice Hockey




 Amusement Parks




 Musical Theater (Beginner)





 Skate Boarding



 Corner Time


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service

 Foot Worship


 Massage (Giving)

 Medical fetish play


 Obedience Training


 Maid / Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish


 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation


 Wax Play

 Card Games



 Horror Movies


 Online Chatrooms

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games


 Web Surfing

 Alternative Medicine


 Online Auctions




 Intellectual Discourse

 Paranormal Phenomena





 1950s Lifestyle




 Old Guard

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music


 Industrial Music

 New Age Music



 Body Building



 Kick Boxing


 Street Hockey


 Curious About:



 Folk Music

 Sky Diving






 Hard Limits:

 Female Sovereignty


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Journal Entries:
3/30/2018 1:48:30 PM
So Craigslist classified adds are gone. Fet life may close down all because of the new trafficking law that makes anyone involved responsible even if they did not know it. Wonder how much longer this site will last.

9/24/2017 9:24:04 AM
So I think I figured out what I need. I want a 24/7 slave that will role play a girlfriend every once in a while.

6/4/2017 8:23:32 AM
Wow long time since the last update. Well I got back with my girl only to find out it did not work again. I enjoyed the ride, we are just going in different directions. So I am looking again for a slave to train to be mine. I enjoy the thrill of the hunt but would rather have the trophy to enjoy. Seeking 24/7 live in, if your local and want to play/explore fine but I am not looking for a part time affair. Side note, male slaves can be useful. I have no desire for sex with a man, but my house has lots of work that needs to be done. Since your going to look and contact me anyway think about that.

9/19/2015 12:39:06 PM
Why is it the closer you get the more you fear?  I am still seeking answers as all must.  the question has never been the same so how can the answer.   My girl is in a strange place.  She is to far along to turn back but she fears letting go completely.  This has caused much turmoil in our lives.  Each time she runs she comes back and wants more.  This time is the same,  I hope that I can push her past her fears and finally see the benefits from all my work.  It is a labor of love, but still labor.

8/12/2015 9:30:49 PM
Sadly I am single again and searching.

7/13/2015 2:13:30 AM
Life takes many twists and turns and mine is no exception. My girl has returned and I am once again tasked with showing her she is a slave not a sub. My focus must be laser sharp and I feel I must dedicate some time to her alone. I will be taking a three month break from this site, and when I return I will continue to search for the beta I desire to complete my household. Till then have fun see you in October. Stephen

5/31/2015 8:02:02 AM
So I am single once again.  Had to release the girl that I was considering.  I do not want to bash her or say anything mean.  It was fun while it lasted and she could not let go enough to become the girl I wanted.  I will try to learn from this experience and move on to find my ideal.  Life is a journey so enjoy the ride and chase what makes you happy.  I will do the same.

12/8/2014 7:04:54 AM
I now have  a woman from this site under contract.  I will be busy training her for a while but will pop in from time to time.  My search will continue at a later date right now I have a lot of work to do with this one and need to focus at the task at hand

8/2/2014 10:25:47 AM
Wow so I have been away from this site for quite some time I will take some time before updating my profile in what my life is about.  I am still seeking a slave to own. Life has been crazy but I am back seeking to own and be happy

12/19/2012 2:01:45 PM

You have to love when someone writes you an angry reply to a message you sent.  I did not think they understood what I was trying to say.  My fault.  Then you take the time to try to explain what you wanted to express differently.  You hit send only to find out you have been blocked.   

Why bother to send me a reply?  I guess its better then being deleted unread but not by much

8/26/2012 10:31:37 AM

Slavery is like trickle down economics.  You give everything to your owner to make Him/Her Happy and have an easier life,  In the hopes that in return they will use you well and give you some scraps.

1/20/2012 12:20:26 PM

hmmm I have to wonder what is going on.  I see alot of people listing themselves as a slave and then telling me what they are into and a list of limits.  I  wonder about it,  I do understand some limits are proper but when the list gets more then the basic 3 or 4 I have to shake my head.  I never understand a profile that list the person as a slave and then they tell me that her children come first.  Wait a slave is property,  my car never told me I will take you for a ride after I make sure the smart car is ok.  A horse will nurse its fawn while doing the work that is required of it.  that is a slave.

1/2/2012 6:47:31 PM

So I guess I am not going to have a male slave any time soon.  After the prospect changed his story several times and did not disclose his health issues till the night before the meet he got upset that these facts bothered me.  I can not understand the idea that he held facts back because he knew they were issues that would change my opinion of him.  When they came to light he became angry and called me a fake.  Now he threatens to get me removed from collar me and course he blocked me.

I will post his letter soon






12/30/2011 1:35:39 PM

So a few days ago a man contacted me wanting to become my slave.  It happens alot even though I list myself a straight.  Since he was local I decided to send back an email and see what was up.  I explained to him that I have no interest in sex with a man but I could use a servant around the house.  He is still interested and I wonder about it.  I would love to know anyones ideas or comments on this.  I wonder such things as can a man truely stay celebate?  How would this effect my persuit of a female slave?  Is it safe to lock a man in a chastity device for the rest of his life?

  I can find plenty of uses for him since I am a sadist and I hate to clean,  but I have alot of questions on the subject. 

I would be happy to hear any ideas and comments on this topic.  Also I would like to know what is the best chastity device and how you know this.




8/16/2011 6:42:47 PM

Just returned from a great vacation and my soul searching has made me ask myself one question.

What have you done today to make your dreams of tomorrow come true?

7/30/2010 5:32:51 AM
Going off to pensic war hoping to find some kinky people their

6/23/2010 2:59:03 PM
So the other day I get a message from a fellow "dom"
He complimented me and then asked if I could make his wife become a slave.
So I looked at his profile and no mention of a wife.  When I asked him about it he said she was not into it and that is why he is looking.
I am ashamed to be in the same catagory as this loser!

6/4/2010 7:19:48 PM
so I went to an auction today and wanted to get a lawn tractor and a trailer but the bidding went too high
but I scored with 4 gas masks for 54$

5/22/2010 3:14:06 PM

In the final analysis, slave ownership is a selfish and one-sided institution that exists solely and exclusively for superior beings to exploit inferior creatures for their own personal sake and benefit.  People here at Collar Me who say they want to be slave owners, but who talk about wanting a friendship and sharing a relationship with their slaves, just aren't taking that institution seriously and only want to play at owning slaves rather than living the lives of real slave owners.  Slaves aren't friends, companions, or lovers.  Slaves are inferior life forms, naked animals, beasts of burden, and pieces of livestock in human form that serve, function, and perform in whatever manner is required so that their owners can enjoy an enhanced and more comfortable lifestyle at the creature's expense.  Real and true slave ownership becomes life's greatest luxury only when the slave owner adopt the attitude that they've taken a slave creature into their home so that they can literally take total possession of a human body and make use of it in any ways that suit their needs, satisfy their desires, and serve their purposes.  THAT is what REAL slavery and REAL slave owership is all about.

When people take the two of us into their homes as slaves we don't expect them to care in the least about our thoughts and feelings.  Our minds shouldn't matter to them at all.  We're there because those people want our bodies and for no other reason.  We're there becase those people want bodies to do their hard labor for them, so they can sit back in leisurely comfort and enjoy their free time while the two of us sweat and toil on their behalf.  We're there because those people want bodies they can impose their immoral, indecent, and perverted sexual urges on without having to ask if it's alright beforehand, and without having to offer any appologies afterwards for the vile and obscene things they imposed on our naked flesh and exposed body parts.  We're there because those people want bodies they can humiliate, debase, torment, and torture for no reason at all except the personal satisfaction they get out of venting their cruel and sadistic urges on a living creature, the personal gratification they get out of exercising power and authority over something alive, and the personal enjoyment they get out of making us suffer simply because they feel like doing it.  Labor, sex, and torture are the only three reasons for wanting to own a slave, and the only three reasons for bringing a slave creature into your home is so you can have in your possession a body that can do that work, provide that sex, and endure those tortures.  THAT is the harsh reality of slavery and the two of us understand this and accept it as the reality that has to be faced when we give ourselves to people as slaves.

Lets face it, you can't really be friends with someone who has forced you to scrub their toilet with your bare hands, beaten you to welts with a whip, or made you stick your tongue up their buttholes.  You can't sit down with some for a friendly drink and idle conversation about politics or religion after that person has spent all day fisting your ass, spitting in your face, and dragging you around at the end of a leash like a whipped dog.  When people step on you and grind you into the dirt under the heels of their boots you fear them, you respect their authority, you come to accept the fact that you're their inferior, and you simply can't relate to them any longer as an equal.  Slavery, by its very nature, forces a huge seperation in status, stature, worth, and value between slave owners and the creatures they dominate.  Once you've licked someones feet, and showered in their piss, you just can't relate to that person as an equal ever again.  Once a person is dominated by another they can never again view that person from anything other than a subordinate position.  My husband and I realize that and we find it hard to understand how people here at Collar Me think that when the chains come off, and our clothes go back on, that everything can revert back to how it was before we started.  It can't and it shouldn't. 

So, we are seeking people who are REAL and SERIOUS slave owners.  We are seeking people who want us ONLY for our bodies and who don't give a damned about our minds.  We're seeking people who want us for THEIR purposes and who give us orders not choices.  We're seeking people who know that once they've had us we'll never be able to relate to them as anything but slaves ever again and people who want it just thata very way.  If you are serious about slave ownership then we would like very much to get to know you better and we hope you'll contact us.
I reposted this journal from another act but I think they say it so well. 

thanks  crucifiedslaves for putting this up

4/26/2010 10:34:11 AM
wow this site is upside down.  Owners chasing slaves and trying to impress them. shouldn't things be the other way around?  I have a home a place for a slave and they should show me why I should chose them.  What makes a slave worthy of its owners time?
Tell me what you have that is worthy?

2/26/2010 12:26:55 PM
just wondering
is thier a differance between owning more then one slave and poly? let me know what you think

12/24/2009 6:50:42 AM
ok so who wants to lay under my tree and wait to be unwrapped?

8/17/2009 11:20:51 AM
I am back had a great time now back to finding what I seek

7/23/2009 10:49:49 AM
packing for pennsic war will be back in two weeks from this weekend hope you all have fun!

6/21/2008 4:57:42 PM
I just do not get it!!!
today I was contacted by a new member on this site and when I replied it was deleted unread
I can almost understand if I message someone and I do not fit thier idea of a Master but she contacted me and sent pics
people complain about getting short replies to their profiles but I do not see the point in wasting alot of time if its only going to be deleted before ever being read

12/22/2007 1:40:58 PM
my secound photo my newest toy
now all I need is a pet to put in it

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