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sadamra

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Greetings, I am a switch. For me there is no I think Ill be a submissive today, or Dom today. It solely depends on the person(s) I am involved with at the time. If I perceive that your willpower is less than mine. Then I will attempt to control you. If by chance, this proves fruitless, then do with me as you will I range from one end of the BDSM spectrum to the other when it comes to pain. I can do, and do like sensual play. I can do, and do like the bleeding, welt, bruising play.

I am a laid back kind of guy. I have three tattoos and a pierced tongue, both nipples, both ears, and a pierced penis. I have plans for more tats and piercings. I like local scenes and just going to the movies or out to play pool. I love music of all types. I play the guitar. Music I have found helps to keep my mood even. I consider myself a dog person, though I do get along with most animals. I enjoy history and renaissance fairs. I love to read and write. I read almost anything, and, write mostly poetry and short stories. I also like to dance, ballroom and modern.

As for what I like in a submissive, I like someone with a brain. Someone that I do not have to order them to do what they know to do, after training of course. They must be out going and be able to hold a decent conversation. The ideal person, and yes, I do see sub missives as people, would be able to submit to training as a 247 live in for the first month or so. I have found this to be the easiest way to gain the confidence of one another. After all, there can be no relationship of any kind without trust. They must have common sense enough to be able to pick up on subtle hints, and body language. One more reason for the live in training so that we both may have the opportunity to learn each others mannerisms. Play and punishments are open, as I do almost all of it. I do not however, believe in beating someone who likes it as punishment. Instead I will find the one thing that makes you feel self loathing. I. E. Ignoring you, or making you write me an essay on what you did wrong.

In a Dominate what I seek is power, and, the ability to use it with control and compassion. I have very few hard limits. They are scat, dismemberment, and anything illegal. i.e. anyone under age, and financial domination. Now some may ask why I put dismemberment there. Well, I have been asked if I was okay with that once. So seeing that there are some people out there that get their jollies off by cutting pieces off of people, I thought it is better safe than sorry. I also am not a cleaning service. Playing maid or butler is fine, but, I refuse to be anyones submissive for the sole purpose of cleaning their house. In addition, I do not submit to couples. For one reason only, I have found that when one submits to a couple, sometimes the orders and daily tasks become contradictory. Other than that, I love serving couples. This is on a case by case basis though. For single Dominates, I look for strength, power, knowledge, compassion, and the ability to have fun. I am loyal, meaning that once collared, I will not talk to any other Dominates that have the idea to steal me away. I do request a training period though. However long you feel is appropriate to establish a connection.

Also, if you have made it this far, youll notice that I have not mentioned sex of any kind thus far. This is because, I do not feel that sex is an essential part of the life style. I like sex. I enjoy sex. Sex to me is a special thing. Hopeless romantic notion I know, but, it is the way I feel about it. I will however worship my DomDomme, meaning to give oral sex. As far as actual intercourse goes, I reserve that for people that I feel a strong connection with.
Thank you for reading, I wish you the best of luck in your prospective searches

Have a wonderful daynight ( whenever youre reading this )

Best Wishes,
10/9/2010 8:38:18 PM
Well for the first time i will be workin All Hallows Eve, Up side is that it will be in Gatlinburg,TN. So if there is anything of interest going on the weekend of the 29 - 31st, please let me know.
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 Age: 18
 Charlotte, North Carolina