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I am looking for a relationship that has kink in it. To me it is not as much fun tieing up a sub unless i am in a more normal relationship one that is outside of kink. i love the feeling of that bond that comes from having both a standard relationship and kink in it at the same time. How i work, i like to just talk and find out likes and dislikes of a sub or slave. i know that each person is different and has different wants and needs. there is no one size fits all approach. i would be foolish if i thought that was the case. after talking i would like to meet in a nice public place like a mall or something akin to it. That being said. i am into bondage, suspension bondage, secret public play, forcing orgasms for hours on end. those are just examples. i am also willing to try out what ever is suggested to me, so long as it can be done safely. using ice cubes yes. using fire or needles nope, if i dont have the training in one form or another to do something safely i am not doing it.