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I am a simple guy! No stud, not hot bod but with a brain that works smart. I realized about my other side since last few years but took my time to study about it. It all started with one of my friends who once accidentally told me that she likes taking pain. We were good friends & colleagues at work but that incident changed us a lot. I started helping her take pain initially by twisting her fingers, arms or giving her light slaps. Then came hair pulling, harder slaps or some true spanking. Slowly we went for some rubbers and stationary clips. It was not long before she would strip for me and allow me to spank her using my leather shoes or even the belt. We have had sex a few times too but it was more into this darker side. That's when we slowly started exploring internet for ideas. It was probably less than 6 months, when she became comfortable with heavy spanking and level of humiliation. Alas! All good things have to come to an end as she got married and settled in USA. Yes, we did thought about marrying each other but realized it was not practical. I have her contact details but we rarely speak and she is happily married now. After we were out of it all, I was like, desperately seeking female submissive and had my profiles on those all sites - Alts, CMs and everything else with a tag line of "Experience dom looking for a sub". Had no luck except for seeing some hairy women (who I later realized to be men :)) on the cams. Absolutely no true submissive on web; forget about real world. That gave me some time to ponder through literature, stories, blogs, experiences. I started contributing, sharing my ideas. During the period, I happened to go to USA for work and there I actually spoke with some true individuals (on IM). Eventually, it all helped me realize that I am not just someone who want to top somebody else. Instead, I have a creative mind and I can play both top/bottom equally well. I was able to explore my belief (not claiming that it's the correct one) that it is a pleasure for an ordinary looking person to top a beautiful person (from their own perspectives) as it helps them vent out some of frustration and jealousy and treat the slave the way they like. So here am I now - a switch who can submit to someone who thinks I am cute and she is not as much. Or dominate someone who I find beautiful. It's all in the mind after all. I sincerely wish to submit to cruel women. I prefer matured ones (specially above 28) who are not much after sex, enjoy being discrete.I am open to cyber or real time. I am open to humiliation, pain, abuse or name calling. Limits can be discussed and re-defined. Let me know if I can get an opportunity to sneak in your den.
10/11/2015 7:39:32 AM
Anyone interested in filthy humiliation? Didn't know that spitting can be so humiliating when done at right spot or words can be terrible when made to speak at right place and pitch. Nasty brain, awww!!!
9/2/2012 12:03:23 PM

hotemerald17

 

 

 

She is a scam profile. She claims to be nice and well settled but when I started talking to her, she first asked me to register on another BDSM site and then take a paid membership there. To catch her red handed, I asked her if I can instead wire that money to her account. Her response was astonishing, she said - first the membership and then direct transfer to her account. Obviously I realized by then she was a fake and reported her.

 

Beware of her.

8/15/2012 8:41:28 PM

its fun to command and get commanded on the cam!!! i didn't really think it would be with slow connections n all...but it is

wolfsounds
 
 Age: 23
 Groningen, Netherlands