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sweetestmarie
| Hetero Female, 51, CentralArkansas, Arkansas
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Nobody really knows what to say on here as what catches one persons eye may not catch the next.
We are all here looking for something, some for sex, some for online, some for companionship and some looking for that special one.
Ive been on and off of here for a few years. Im just here and if somebody captures my mind, the rest will follow. Im not new to the bdsm scene, semi active in the community, however been on hiatus even locally for a few months.
Trying to find myself and find that special person who is not only Dominant but caring, kind, compassionate, with a sense of humor, fun, and maybe have a little creativity, who can be spontaneous, loyal, supportive.
Updated 8/5/2023 - its funny how life changes in a blink of an eye. Things that once was, is no longer the case. I am only here for friends. A real bad car accident in April 2023, has changed things in my life. I am no longer able to do the things I once did. I now walk with a walker, on good days I can use a cane. I also am going to physical therapy for my arm...I have many surgeries in the future. Just don't take for granted of what you have. It could all be gone in a blink of an eye and no fault of your own.
My spirits are still great, even though most days I struggle. I'm not the slave or submissive I once was.
Thank you for looking.
Marie..aka -fiore- on f.l. ***********
3 New photos added, 10192018
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4/12/2018 9:57:12 PM: My limit list
-fiore-:
THE FOLLOWING LIST IS NOT ALL COMPREHENSIVE. MOST IS NOT SOMETHING I HAVE TO HAVE..NOT INTERESTED MAY NOT NECESSARY BE A HARD LIMIT. AS EVERYTHING IS NEGOTIABLE. I have put notes by items too, please look over tell me your thoughts, things you have done, or would like to try.
X Not interested
XX INTERESTED BUT NOT DONE IT OR SAMPLED IT ONCE
XXX INTERESTED AND HAVE TRIED IT
XXXX LIKES IT WOULD DO IT AGAIN
XXXXX LOVES IT.. WANTS IT 24/7
Abrasion XX
Age play X
Anal sex XX –never had anal sex.
Anal plugs (small) XXXX
Anal plugs (large) XX
Anal plug (public, under clothes) XXX
Animal Roles X
Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders) X
Aromas X
hyxiation X
Ass eating X
Auctioned for Charity XX -if it was for a good cause, example raise money for cancer..
Bathroom use control XX
BDSM COMMUNITY AND MUNCHES XXXX
Beating (soft) X
Beating (Hard)X
Beastiality X
Bisexuality X
Blindfolds XXXX
BLOOD X
Being serviced (sexual) XXX
Being bitten XX
Breast bondage XXX
Breath control XXX
Branding XX
Boot worship X
Bondage (light) XXXX
Bondage (heavy) XXX
Bondage (multi-day) XXX
Bondage (public, under clothing)XXX
Breast whipping XXX
Brown Showers X
Cages (locked inside of) XXX
Caning X
Catheterization XX
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) XX
Chains XXX
Chastity belts XXX
Chauffeuring X
Choking XXX
Chores (domestic service) XXX
Clothespins XXX
Cock worship XXXX
Collars (worn in private) XXXXX
Collars (worn in public) XXXXX
Competitions with other subs X
Contracts XX
Corsets (wearing) XXX
Corset training(waist reduction) XX – very interested in this.
Crawling – XX It’s hard as I have a torn ACL.
CROPS XXXX
Cuffs (leather) XXX
Cuffs (metal) XX
Cutting X
Dilation X
Dildoes XXX
Double penetration XXX
DUNGEONS XXXX
Drugs and Alcohol during play X
Drugs anytime X im DD free
Alcohol – very light drinker… hardly drink
Electricity X
ELECTRICAL PLAY XX
Enforced chastity XXX
Enema’s XX
Erotic dance (public) X
Examinations (physical) XXXX
Exercise (forced/required) XX
Exhibitionism (friends) XXXX
Exhibitionism (strangers) XX
Eye contact restrictions XXX
Face slapping X
Fantasy abandonment X
Fantasy Rape XX
Fantasy Gang Raped X
Fear (being scared) X
FIRE CUPPING XXXX
FIRE MOUSSE XXXX
FIRE WANDS XXXX
Fire Drumming XX
Fisting (anal) X
Fisting (vaginal) XX
FLOGGERS XXXXX
Following orders XXXX
Foot worship X
Forced bedwetting X
Forced Crossdressing X
Forced homosexuality X
Forced masturbation XXX
Forced nudity (private) XXXX
Forced nudity (around others) XXX
Forced servitude XXXX
Full head hoods XX
Furs/feathers XX
Gags (cloth) XX
Gags (rubber) XXX
Gags (tape) XX
Gags(phallic) XX
Gags(inflated) XX
Garters/stockings XXX
Gas masks X
Gates of Hell (Male)X
Genital sex XXXX
Given away to Domme Dom (temp) X
Given away to Domme Dom (Perm) X
Golden showers XX
Group sex X
Hairbrush spankings XX
Hair pulling XXX
Hand jobs (giving) XXXX
Hand jobs (receiving) N/A
Harems (serving w/other subs) X
Harnessing (leather) XX
Harnessing (rope) XX
Having food chosen for you XXX
Having clothing chosen for you XXX
Head (giving fellatio) XXX
High heel worship X
High heel wearing(forced) X
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) NO CLUE WHAT THIS IS…
Hoods XX
Hot oils (on genitals) XXX
Hot waxing XXX
HOUSE PARTIES XXXX
Housework (doing) XXXX
Human Puppy Dog X
Humiliation (private) XXX
Humiliation (public) XX
Hypnotism XX
Ice cubes XXX
Immobilization XX
Impact Play XXXX
Infantilism X
Initiation rites X
Injections X
Interrogations X
Japanese rope bondage X
Kidnapping XX
Kneeling – BAD KNEES. I NORMALLY SIT AT SOMEBODY’S FEET.
KNIFE PLAY XXXX
Leash/leader XXX
Leather clothing XX
Leather restraints XXX
Lectures for misbehavior XX
Licking (non-sexual) XXX
Lingerie (wearing) XXX
Manacles & Irons XX
Manicures (giving) XX
Massage (giving) XXX
Massage (receiving) XXXX
Medical scenes XX
Modeling for erotic photos X
Mouth bits XX
Mummification XX
NEEDLES X
Nipple clamps XXX
Nipple weights XXX
NOTHING ILLEGAL.X HARD LIMIT
Oral/anal play (rimming) XX
Over-the-knee spanking XXX
Orgasm denial XXXX
Orgasm control XXXX
Outdoor scenes XXX
Outdoor sex XXX
PADDLES XXXX
Pain (severe) XX
Pain (mild) XXXX
Personal training XX
Phone sex (serving Dom) XXX
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) X
Phone sex (commercial) X
Piercing (temporary) XX
Piercing (permanent) XX
Plastic surgery X
Pony Play X
Prison scenes X
Prostitution(public pretend) X
Public exposure XXX
Punishment Scene XXX
Pussy Cock whipping XXX
Pussy worship X
Riding crops XXXX
Riding the horse (crotch tort.) XX
Rituals XXXX
Religious scenes X
Restrictive rules on behavior XXX
Rubber/latex clothing XX
Rope body harness XXX
Saran wrapping XXX
SCAT X
School girl XX
Scratching - getting XXX
Scratching - giving XXX
Sensory deprivation XX
Serving XXXX
Serving as art XX
Serving as an Ashtray X
Serving as furniture X
Serving as a maid XX
Serving as toilet (urine) X
Serving as waitress XXX
Serving orally (sexual) XXX
Serving others (supervised) XX
Serving others (unsupervised) X
Sexual deprivation (short term) XX
Sexual deprivation (long term) X
Shaving (body hair) XX
Shaving (head hair) X
SHOCK COLLARS XX
Skinny dipping XXX
Sleep Deprvation XX
Sleep sacks XX
Slutty clothing (private) XXXX
Slutty clothing (public) XXX
Spanking XXXX
Spandex clothing XXXX
Speech restrictions XX
Speculums (Anal) XX
Speculums (vaginal) XX
Spreader bars XX
Standing in corner XXX
Stocks XX
Straight jackets XX
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) XX
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) XX
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) X
Strapping Full Body Beating X
Suspension (upright) X – PANIC ATTACS BEING TIED AND SUSPENDED… TRYING TO OVERCOME THIS FEAR.
Suspension (inverted) X
Suspension (horizontal) X
Supplying partners for Dom X
Swallowing semen XXX
Swallowing urine X
Swapping (one other couple) X
Swinging (multiple couples) X
Tattooing XX
Teasing XXX
TENS UNIT XXX
Threesome XX
Tickling XX
Topless Beaches XX
Triple penetration XX
Uniforms XX
Including others XX
Vaginal dildo XXXX
Verbal humiliation XX
Vibrator on genitals XXX
Voyeurism (watching others) XXX
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) XX
Video (watching others) XXX
Video (recordings of you) X
Voice training XX
WATER BOARDING X
WATERSPORTS XX
Water Torture X
Waxing (hair removal) XX
WAX PLAY XXXX
Wearing symbolic jewelry XXXX
WHIPS XX
Wrestling X
Wooden paddles XXX
9/6/2017 7:14:05 PM: Written 9/6/17. MESSAGE
Just 1 name across the screen
My heart leaps. The pounding of drums start to beat a slow steady pace
My blood begins to boil sending an inferno fire within me
Butterflies flap 1000 of flutters through uncharted territories within
Goosebumps raise the little tiny theads of hair across my skin
Toffee iris's shimmer in the lights of the room
I hold my breath as I read his message, imagining His voice as I read his writing.
Trembling waiting for His next reply.
8/15/2017 7:16:27 PM: Fake Dom's and sub frenzy
I read on face book today all the red flags for a fake Dom..but yet there are no rules for a fake sub from what I could find.
Everyone told me a fake Dom wants to collar you right away.
But nobody says a fake sub wants to be collared.right away
He Will ask you for a meeting to prove sex
But could be same for a submissive as the girls are just as bad as the guys in making fake profiles, not wanting to talk via skype, kik text, either or could be married...
He Is more concerned with his wants and needs then hers
Everyone has wants and needs or we would not be here. We subs have posted what we were looking for in a Dom what we want what we need.
He Doesn't respect your boundaries and pushes you to do things that are hard limits
How do limits change then if not pushed or tried. Is that what safe words are for, trust and communication. Hard limits will remain hard limits and soft will remain soft unless they are pushed. You have to trust that the person has your best interest at heart.
Want to be called Sir or Master upon first meeting
Yet there are girls out there who want and need that and want to be called kitten or slave or slut upon first meeting
He Doesn't want to be around you other then to have sex.
There are girls who don't want a relationship and is only looking for kinky fuckery
Will try to Dom you before the relationship even starts
Girls want to submit before the relationship starts.
So think long and hard. Why is it sub frenzy for girls and fake Dom's for guys.
Why the double standards
Yes there are guys out there who are just horny but why label them as fake. Some may be new to the life style and going through 'Dom Frenzy'
Why the double standards. We were all new at one point and time.
I now hate the term fake Dom's
Maybe uneducated is a better term.
Or maybe there are fake Dom's as much as there are fake subs.
7/2/2017 8:15:13 AM: 7/2/2017im not a maid, but i can clean.im not a chef, but i can cook.im not a musician, but i like musicim not a princess, but likes to be cared for. im not a dare devil, but love adventure. im not emotional, but i have feelings. im not a goddess, but love my curves.im not a pain slut, but love to shed tears. im not selfish, but i dont share what is mine. im not perfect, but i am perfect for ONE!im strong, im happy, im me, im free.
5/23/2017 8:43:54 AM: Is there anybody real on these sites. I hear the same thing from men as I do from the ladies... bdsm is not all about sex, and it seems like most men are here either looking for a quick hook up or cyber. That's not me, that's not who I am...
I am the girl I want my Mam to be prout of when we are out in public, holding hands, I know what I am to him at home in the bedroom.
I want to be the one he takes home to meet his family.
What I see though is a lot of boys and children on these sites, not just here but alt.com, POF, meetme, match .com. and the list goes on and on. How is a woman to look up to a Man and give Him respect when it's not earned.
If He can't control is actions, and be respectable at first how can He Dominate or take control of another person's life.
For those of you who are on here looking for a romp in the hay why list yourself as Dominant? You should list yourself as Primal as that is not what D/s is about.
That's my rant.
Looking for somebody real, real feelings and emotions, caring, considerate, but has His life together, knows what He wants and what Ds, really is. And not be afraid to take a chance on something that just might be great
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