I'm pretty much a trusting person, for the most part,
however, I have found myself to have people abuse that and make a fool of me..
However, I believe each person deserves their own chance and don't judge
anyone.. In fact, I try to keep an open mind with everyone.. at least as much
as a human being can.. I believe in ROMANCE! I love romance and being romantic..
I enjoy pampering the my man (when I have one that is)..
Am constantly told that I'm good looking and both look and
act far younger than my years (while still being responsible for the most
part).. Am considered intelligent, honest, capable of carrying on conversations
on a variety of topics, kind, caring, giving, passionate, compassionate, a
leader with a commanding presence, successful, possessing a quirky sense of
humor and so much more! You will find me a contradiction in terms.. I can be
intense yet laid back, intelligent yet do some of the most stupid things,
outgoing yet shy, a leader yet not afraid to take directions and be a role
player, funny yet serious, etc..
I do have one son ( Danny, 10 yrs ) who mean the world to me
and have been my focus since i lost his dad.. I do not seek a replacement
mother for my son.. Rather, I seek one amazing man who not only accepts my relationship
with my son but won't feel threatened by nor jealous of this relationship and
who can meld seamlessly into our family unit..
The reality is that I truly do seek a lasting relationship..
For this to happen we should be compatible emotionally, intellectually,
socially, spiritually, physically (call me shallow but looks do matter) and,
yes, sexually.. Even with all this, love must exist and there must be that
ever-elusive 'spark..' In essence, I seek the proverbial 'Total Package..'
Rather than 'settling' for someone I could be happy with, I seek someone I
cannot imagine living without (a subtle yet important distinction) for a
lifetime together filled with passion (both in and outside the bedroom),
intensity and bliss..
I guess I'm looking for a man who can love me as I am (good,
bad and ugly).. Someone who can relate about life and it's ups and downs and
will want to share them.. I want my match to be able to work together to obtain
goals that we've both set.. I'd like us to be able to grow as individuals as
well as a couple.. I'd want our relationship to be secure so that we could feel
comfortable and trust each other completely without question!..
I would want to be her everything and she mine.. I want the
WHOLE package.. A friendship that grows into the ultimate
loving/caring/passionate relationship that one only dreams of.. I don't want to
just live with someone, I want someone I can't imagine living without.. I hope
that makes sense.. I guess I'm searching for my missing piece to my puzzle.. I'd
want my woman to match on all levels..
I am at a great place in my life now and want to share it
with a partner on all levels.. I agree there must be a physical attraction as
well.. I always say that it's what on the inside that counts and that always makes
a person attractive on the outside as well.. I want to be with someone that I
miss when we are not together and I can feel the electricity running through
body when we touch.. Someone who likes to cuddle(I know this probably sounds
corny), hold hands, hug, kiss for no reason, I want to be the couple when were
80 walking down the street and holding hands.. I just love that when I see it..
Like you I just won't settle..I do not have a particular physical 'type' that
appeals to me.. Rather, I tend to look at the entire package, especially
personality.. I am not the jealous type by any means.. I believe that in a
relationship you have to be a family reguardless if the children are not
biologically yours a family is a family no matter what! I would never try to be
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