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| I'm a man who understands most women want to be treated like a lady when in public, but secretly want to be a porn star in the bedroom, I am looking for that particular type of woman. If your concept of a great sexual encounter is with someone who will get on top of you and perform whilst you are content to lay there with your legs over his shoulders contemplating painting the ceiling, then I suggest you look for someone else. However if you think the Kama Sutra is an excellent introduction to bliss, then you are in the right place for me.
I like curves, and adore women with a few extra pounds, a BBW if you will, however your body shape matters very little to me. The mind is the largest sex organ we possess, I find intellect to be a huge stimulant. You are curious, corruptible, playful, a little hedonistic. I really like good girls with naughty desires and thoughts, but I like bad girls too; actually they are all bad, sometimes it just takes a little coaxing for that side to come.
Let me seduce you with my words, my eyes, my desire; let me charm the panties right off of you with smart conversation and wit. Let me ravish your body with my praises, my hands, my mouth; let me bring out the sex goddess within you. Let me use my talented lips and tongue to pleasure you, bring you to bliss over and over again; let me explore your deepest darkest desires and fantasies with you; let me initiate you into new mysteries of ecstasy that will leave you burning with delight (and sometimes shame). I want to do things to you your mother would never approve of, I want to make you do things you've only dreamt of in your most private thoughts. I'm witty, articulate, confident, with a wickedly dirty mind and a sense of humor to go with it, (yet the naughty girl has to seek it out), combined with the right equipment and the necessary knowledge and experience to use it.
Meek or mild girls need not respond and should stick to the straight and narrow path, because this part of forest is too dark for some. But if you are adventerous then the rewards are indescribable for the open minded.
One objective is to find a girl who is into age play... a Daddy/daughter scenario would be my ideal situation, and while I am open for discussion on the roles we play I also recognize that a relationship of this nature has certain D/s overtones to it.
I often refer to the Dominant/submissive relationship as a journey. Indeed, a strong Dominant leads his girl forward along a path of exploration, experience, enlightenment, and ecstasy. However, no Dominant can bring his girl forward without taking the time to appreciate where she has been and the challenges she may have faced. This requires great care, with sensitivity to a girl’s past.
Some girls have faced real trauma and hardship in their lives, and they may carry emotional scars. Others continue to fight demons that can be triggered by seemingly innocuous movements or phrases. Demons that freeze them in a moment or haunt them in their sleep.
A loving Dominant will make a girl feel completely comfortable in discussing her past. He will proceed slowly and with sensitivity, gaining her trust as he goes. He will ask questions and listen with care and attentiveness. Above all, he will appreciate she may have never discussed these things with anyone, and needs to feel his compassion as she bares her soul.
Once a Dominant understands where his girl has been, he will proceed with care. While he may wish to choose a path forward that can help her triumph over her demons and live blissfully with him, he will know these things do not happen easily. Indeed, past traumas may have ugly scars that can fade but never disappear. And a girl can be prone to triggers that spur emotional duress even in the best of times.
Trust is tantamount as a Dominant brings his girl forward. No matter what, she needs to trust him to be there with her - and for her - no matter how the shadows of her past may encroach. If she pushes away, he will understand this may actually be her need to regroup and then feel him pull her close - ever so gently.
Positive reinforcement and continued dialog are critical. Issues of self-worth and self-doubt can be devastating. A girl with a difficult past may have been made to feel she deserves pain - and not in a good sense. Some girls have been made to feel they are not important enough to hear - so they don’t talk. They don’t discuss things that can cause them to fall into the shadows, and when they do, they feel horribly guilty. Indeed, some girls in bad relationships have felt they could disappear and it would all be okay.
This profile is an acknowledgement to any girl who has prevailed through a challenging past and who has had the courage to face down her demons. It is also an open letter to the Dominant who may now care for her in a bond. I hope we Dominants always to have the sensitivity and compassion to gain a girl’s trust. And I hope to always have the intuition and ability to create a wonderful journey forward that allows a girl to be free - to be herself - and to revel in her freedom in a bond with me.
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